THE WAY WE SEE ME

PROCEDURE:

  1. Give copies of the questionnaire on the next pages to some of your relatives or friends.
  2. Answer “The Way We See Me Questionnaire” as the items apply to you.
  3. Compare your Questionnaire with each person who answered one.
  4. Answer the following Discussion prompts.

DISCUSSION: On a separate sheet of paper type your analysis by answering the following questions. Be very specific and give examples:

  1. What similarities did you notice among all questionnaire responses? Why?
  2. What differences did you notice among all questionnaire responses? Why?
  3. What did you learn about yourself from this activity?
  4. What effects do these various perceptions have on your self esteem?

TYPE YOUR ANSWERS ON A SEPARATE SHEET OF PAPER!!!

THE WAY WE SEE ME QUESTIONNAIRE

(Self)

As part of a class assignment, I am distributing this questionnaire to some of my relatives and friends. It is designed to give me your impressions of my personality. I am attempting to compare the way other people see me with the way I see myself. Whit it may be difficult for you to express your impressions exactly, I would appreciate as frank a rating as you can give me.

This questionnaire should not take long to complete. First, try to construct an overall view of your impressions about my personality before answering the specific questions. Consider each item briefly and indicate the first choice that occurs to you. If you come across an it which you feel unable to answer with certainty, place a question mark, instead of a check, in one of the spaces to indicate a guess. However, please do answer every question. If you have comments that will explain any of your answers, please use the space provided or write in the margins. Explanatory comments will be appreciated.

Please begin by considering my main strengths and weaknesses. Describe each as carefully as you can in the spaces below:

Main Strengths:

Main Weaknesses:

How well do the following words apply to me? Please checkmark the word/phrase that applies.

NOT AT ALL / SLIGHTLY / MODERATELY / RATHER
WELL / EXTREMELY
WELL
Self-confident
Tactful
Irritable
Quiet
Emotionally variable
Serious
Energetic
Well-adjusted
Cooperative
Prejudice
Unpredictable
Selfish
Leader
Considerate to Others
Good natured
NOT AT ALL / SLIGHTLY / MODERATELY / RATHER
WELL / EXTREMLY
WELL
Tense
Accepts criticism
Aggressive
Easy to get to know
Imaginative
Sense of humor
Friendly
Dogmatic
Responsible
Ambitious
Physically attractive
Sexually attractive
Mature
Trusting of others
Open

How accurately do these answers reflect your impressions of me?

How well do you know me?

Additional Comments:

Respondent: Self

Relative

Friend

Name:

(Optional)

THE WAY WE SEE ME QUESTIONNAIRE

(Relative or Friend)

As part of a class assignment, I am distributing this questionnaire to some of my relatives and friends. It is designed to give me your impressions of my personality. I am attempting to compare the way other people see me with the way I see myself. Whit it may be difficult for you to express your impressions exactly, I would appreciate as frank a rating as you can give me.

This questionnaire should not take long to complete. First, try to construct an overall view of your impressions about my personality before answering the specific questions. Consider each item briefly and indicate the first choice that occurs to you. If you come across an it which you feel unable to answer with certainty, place a question mark, instead of a check, in one of the spaces to indicate a guess. However, please do answer every question. If you have comments that will explain any of your answers, please use the space provided or write in the margins. Explanatory comments will be appreciated.

Please begin by considering my main strengths and weaknesses. Describe each as carefully as you can in the spaces below:

Main Strengths:

Main Weaknesses:

How well do the following words apply to me? Please checkmark the word/phrase that applies.

NOT AT ALL / SLIGHTLY / MODERATELY / RATHER
WELL / EXTREMELY
WELL
Self-confident
Tactful
Irritable
Quiet
Emotionally variable
Serious
Energetic
Well-adjusted
Cooperative
Prejudice
Unpredictable
Selfish
Leader
Considerate to Others
Good natured
NOT AT ALL / SLIGHTLY / MODERATELY / RATHER
WELL / EXTREMLY
WELL
Tense
Accepts criticism
Aggressive
Easy to get to know
Imaginative
Sense of humor
Friendly
Dogmatic
Responsible
Ambitious
Physically attractive
Sexually attractive
Mature
Trusting of others
Open

How accurately do these answers reflect your impressions of me?

How well do you know me?

Additional Comments:

Respondent: Self

Relative

Friend

Name:

(Optional)

THE WAY WE SEE ME QUESTIONNAIRE

(Relative or Friend)

As part of a class assignment, I am distributing this questionnaire to some of my relatives and friends. It is designed to give me your impressions of my personality. I am attempting to compare the way other people see me with the way I see myself. Whit it may be difficult for you to express your impressions exactly, I would appreciate as frank a rating as you can give me.

This questionnaire should not take long to complete. First, try to construct an overall view of your impressions about my personality before answering the specific questions. Consider each item briefly and indicate the first choice that occurs to you. If you come across an it which you feel unable to answer with certainty, place a question mark, instead of a check, in one of the spaces to indicate a guess. However, please do answer every question. If you have comments that will explain any of your answers, please use the space provided or write in the margins. Explanatory comments will be appreciated.

Please begin by considering my main strengths and weaknesses. Describe each as carefully as you can in the spaces below:

Main Strengths:

Main Weaknesses:

How well do the following words apply to me? Please checkmark the word/phrase that applies.

NOT AT ALL / SLIGHTLY / MODERATELY / RATHER
WELL / EXTREMELY
WELL
Self-confident
Tactful
Irritable
Quiet
Emotionally variable
Serious
Energetic
Well-adjusted
Cooperative
Prejudice
Unpredictable
Selfish
Leader
Considerate to Others
Good natured
NOT AT ALL / SLIGHTLY / MODERATELY / RATHER
WELL / EXTREMLY
WELL
Tense
Accepts criticism
Aggressive
Easy to get to know
Imaginative
Sense of humor
Friendly
Dogmatic
Responsible
Ambitious
Physically attractive
Sexually attractive
Mature
Trusting of others
Open

How accurately do these answers reflect your impressions of me?

How well do you know me?

Additional Comments:

Respondent: Self

Relative

Friend

Name:

(Optional)

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