Sunday July 22, 2012 Phone: 570.829.5216
Pastor David Miklas e-mail : p astormiklas @aol.com
Message : Developing Godly Character - #5 Text: Leviticus 19:32
Character - Respect Your Elders
In Psalm 37:25 we read, "I have been young, and now am old; yet have I not seen the righteous forsaken, nor his seed begging bread." David is saying that he once was young and now is old. Time passes so quickly; all too soon the youth will become the aged ones. The older you get, the more aware you become of how few hours you actually have left. However, the opposite is true of youth.
You can say to a child, "It is going to be about an hour before we leave. g o play." Typically, that child will come back in two minutes and ask, "Is it time to go yet?" An hour seems like a very long time to children.
When you are young, time is measured in minutes.
When you reach adolescence, time is measured in hours.
When you become a young adult, time is measured in days, weeks, months, years, and then in decades.
When you become a senior citizen, time is once again measured in minutes and hours.
Do you realize how quickly time passes? James 4:14 tells us, "Whereas ye know not what shall be on the morrow. For what is your life? It is even a vapour, that appeareth for a little time, and then vanisheth away."
A nation respects their aged will stay a strong nation. I believe one of the reasons America is falling apart today is a direct result of improper treatment of our aged. The eastern countries are recognized as being nations of strength, because as a general rule, the youth respect their elders. Unfortunately, today this characteristic is not taught to young people in America.
The American people are making some drastic errors in the treatment of the elderly. There are corporations all over this great nation who have decided to get rid of the old man because he seems to be slowing down progress. The corporate owners want to force the elderly into retirement. This is a mistake. New employees need to learn from the experience and wisdom of retirement-age people.
America has forgotten her aged. There are many elderly people who need someone to love them for themselves. These forgotten ones are everywhere.
In this lesson we want to give you SEVEN Biblical principles regarding treatment of the elderly.
FIRST : Y outh ought to stand to their feet in the presence of older people. Leviticus 19:32a commands, "Thou shalt rise up before the hoary head."
There was a day that when an elder entered the room, youth automatically stood. Sad to say, that kind of respect is missing in America today.
There was a time in America that if a teacher entered the classroom, out of respect the students stood up .
There was a time when children used to stand in the presence of their parents and grandparents. There was also a time in America when the youth gave their seats to the ladies and the elderly. Rare is the instance when you will see this kind of respect shown today.
SECON D: We are to honor the older people. Leviticus 19:32 charges, "Thou shalt rise up before the hoary head, and honour the face of the old man, and fear thy God: I am the LORD." When the Bible uses the word "honor" in this verse, it means we are to treat the aged as a precious possession. Our elders are of great value and ought to be treated as such.
Deuteronomy 5:16a says, "Honour thy father and thy mother."
Exodus 20:12 says, "Honour thy father and thy mother: that thy days may be long upon the land which the LORD thy God giveth thee."
The Bible teaches that if you honor your parents, you will receive a benefit - longer life! Quite simply, old age is a result of honoring old age. A person who esteems the hoary head becomes the honored one. Older people always feel honored when the youth choose to spend time with them. I often wonder where the great men of conviction are for the next generation. I can promise you this; they are not frolicking among their peers. It is for this reason that I seek out older men to learn from, who have the wisdom that I need to become a great man for his generation.
It is sad, but true, that most young people have no concept of how to treat older people. We need to once again encourage our young people to honor mom and dad, grandma and grandpa and show respect to the seasoned people who built our country and our churches.
Spend time with some of the old people who believe the old way, who act the old way, and who preach the old way. Learn some of the precepts and principles of the aged people. One of the best ways to get character is to spend time with someone who is a person of character.
THIRD: We are to see beauty in older people. Proverbs 20:29 teaches, "The glory of young men is their strength: and the beauty of old men is the grey head." Do you know the Bible says gray hair is the beauty of an old man? Many people try to conceal what God says is their beauty! The Bible says that we ought to see and recognize the beauty of old age. The beauty of wisdom is an inner beauty. Your life will become beautiful if you learn some lessons from your elders. No matter how old you are, there is someone else from whom you can learn.
FOURTH: We are to see the royalty of older people. Proverbs 16:31a says, "The hoary head is a crown of glory." Typically today, a crown is reserved for royalty - for kings and queens to display. We do not just honor the elderly because they are older; they are to be honored as royal people. It is scripturally right to venerate older people.
Young people should recognize that their parents are royalty. Mom is a queen and ought to be treated as such. Dad is a king and ought to be treated as such. Your grandparents ought to be treated as royalty. Ask yourself: Do I give my parents and grandparents the honor and the dignity that they deserve?
FIFTH: We are to care for older people and meet their needs. Ruth 4:15 says,
"And he shall be unto thee a restorer of thy life, and a nourisher of thine old age, for thy daughter in law, which loveth thee, which is better to thee than seven sons, hath born him."
The story of Ruth and Naomi is one of the most well-known stories in the Bible. Naomi and her family left Bethlehem-judah to sojourn in Moab. However, the family sojourned long enough for Naomi's husband Elimelech to die, for her two sons to marry, and then for both of the sons to die. Naomi returned to Bethlehem-judah a bitter woman. The only family remaining with her was her daughter-in-law, Ruth. Naomi said to her former neighbors in Ruth 1:21a, "I went out full, and the LORD brought me home again empty . " Of course, the hand of God is evident in these losses because Naomi guided Ruth into a beautiful marriage with Boaz. God gave Boaz and Ruth a son destined to be a famous man in Israel. Naomi became Obed's nurse, and God gave her a child to nourish her in her old age.
From this beautiful story of Naomi and Ruth, we learn the principle of filling needs of elderly people. There are many ways young people can easily serve the elderly:
Cut their laws in the summer and shovel their snow in the w inter .
Provide transportation to doctors, the grocery store, and church .
Provide company on lonely evenings by listening to and receiving advice.
I Timothy 5:1-16 speaks to us about taking care of the old. In verses 3-16 we have Paul’s instruction concerning those we call the WIDOWS.
“Honour widows that are widows indeed. (4) But if any widow have children or nephews, let them learn first to shew piety at home, and to requite their parents: for that is good and acceptable before God. (5) Now she that is a widow indeed, and desolate, trusteth in God, and continueth in supplications and prayers night and day. (6) But she that liveth in pleasure is dead while she liveth. (7) And these things give in charge, that they may be blameless. (8) But if any provide not for his own, and specially for those of his own house, he hath denied the faith, and is worse than an infidel. (9) Let not a widow be taken into the number under threescore years old, having been the wife of one man, (10) Well reported of for good works; if she have brought up children, if she have lodged strangers, if she have washed the saints' feet, if she have relieved the afflicted, if she have diligently followed every good work. (11) But the younger widows refuse: for when they have begun to wax wanton against Christ, they will marry; (12) Having damnation, because they have cast off their first faith. (13) And withal they learn to be idle, wandering about from house to house; and not only idle, but tattlers also and busybodies, speaking things which they ought not. (14) I will therefore that the younger women marry, bear children, guide the house, give none occasion to the adversary to speak reproachfully. (15) For some are already turned aside after Satan.”
As early as Acts 6 the church had established a charitable outreach to WIDOWS. In James 1:27 we read, "Pure religion and undefiled before God and the Father is this: to visit the fatherless and widows in their affliction ..." Now 30 years later, the ministry to widows showed signs of still being a major burden to the congregation. Paul was therefore eager in this passage to identify those who did not truly need help. Without going into a great detail, there appears to be four kinds of widows listed here:
Number 1: The WIDOW Indeed , verse s 3, 5, 9-10. These were truly widows, left with NO ONE to care for them, but God and His people. According to verse 9-10 these widows were on a special church roll.
Number 2 : The W IDOW with Children, verse 4.
Number 3: The W IDOW living in p leasure , verse 6 .
Number 4: The WIDOW young enough to remarry and raise a family , verses 11-13.
Now the conditional "IF" in verse 8 implies there were those who were trying to escape their personal responsibilities to their aged parents. Notice the word "PROVIDETH." It means to "think before - hand." It is a Christian’s duty to prepare for the need foreseen. The primary reference here is of the obligation of children and grandchildren to support their widowed parents.
Listen carefully, young people. If your mom or dad gets old and you don't see that their needs are fully met, and you ignore them without letters, phone calls, or concern, you are worse than a heathen infidel. This kind of attitude is paganism at its worst. WE ARE TO CARE FOR OUR FAMILY! This generation of youth without character receives life from their parents, but their lack of character makes them unwilling to repay their parents for the sacrifices on their behalf.
SIXTH: Special care should be given to remember our grandparents. The Bible says in II Timothy 1:5-6,
"When I call to remembrance the unfeigned faith that is in thee, which dwelt first in thy grandmother Lois, and thy mother Eunice; and I am persuaded that in thee also. Wherefore I put thee in remembrance that thou stir up the gift of God, which is in thee by the putting on of my hands."
In these verses Paul attributes Timothy's faith to the careful rearing of his mother, Eunice and his grandmother, Lois. I believe God wants us to remember and revere our grandparents. We ought to call them on the phone or write them regularly. Send cards and flowers on special occasions. Never forget their birthdays or anniversary or Christmas. Many people do more for their pets, cars, and plants than for their grandparents. Always remember, your grandparents gave you your parents.
SEVENTH: Follow the counsel of older people. I Kings 12:13 says, "And the king answered the people roughly, and forsook the old men's counsel that they gave him." Rehoboam was a young king who sought counsel from the young and the old, but he chose to take the advice of the youth. Because of this decision, his kingdom was divided. From this account we learn that we should seek and heed the advice of older, more spiritual people. We can learn from their mistakes.
Someone has said that experience is not the best teacher -someone else's experience is.
In essence, in our lives we could bypass the errors they made. Older people will perceive you as wise for asking them questions.
The youth say, "I want to be heard." Their speech begs, "Someone look at me; pay attention to me." Youth can be heard, but first, youth must learn. There is a reward for showing respect for your elders. Respect for your elders will lengthen your life.
Proverbs 4:7-10 tells us, "Wisdom is the principal thing; therefore get wisdom: and with all thy getting get understanding. Exalt her, and she shall promote thee: she shall bring thee to honour, when thou dost embrace her. She shall give to thine head an ornament of grace: a crown of glory shall she deliver to thee. Hear, 0 my son, and receive my sayings, and the years of thy life shall be many."
Proverbs 20:29, "The glory of young men is their strength: and the beauty of old men is the grey head." God is saying, if you want to live a long time, you need to seek wisdom. The Bible teaches the ones possessing wisdom are those who have gray hair. God is offering long life to us!