The Rose Moore Show – Disabilities Radio –
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January 2010
Learning Disabilities Assn. of NJ
PO Box 492
Towaco, NJ07082
Dear Ladies and Gentlemen;
Raymond G. BUESSER "Ray"
BUESSER Raymond "Ray" G., 49, died suddenly on Thursday, January 14, 2010 in Paramus. Ray is survived by his loving wife, Jeanne and two sons, Adam and Josh. He was predeceased by his son, Danny. Ray retired from the Bergen County Sheriff's Department after working for over twenty-five years in the jail and the courts. Ray was well-known and loved for his sense of humor, his honesty and his commitment to doing the best job that he could. He was a loving father, husband, son, uncle, and friend. In addition to his immediate family he leaves behind his parents, Dottie and Lou Buesser, his brother and sister -in-law, Bobby and Dottie Buesser, his brother Steven Buesser, his sisters and brothers-in-law, Karen and Ed Graichen, Debbie and Carl Tucker, many nieces and nephews, and great-nieces and great-nephews. Ray also leaves behind his in-laws, Renee and Carl Schlesinger, his sisters-in-law and brothers-in-law, Laura and Craig Minor and Tia and Michael Amdurer. Funeral services will be 10 AM, Sunday, January 17, 2010 at the Louis Suburban Chapel, 13-01 Broadway (Route 4 west), Fair Lawn, NJ. Interment will follow at KingSolomon Cemetery in Clifton, NJ. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to a trust that was established for Adam and Joshua Buesser family Fund c/o TD Bank.
Published in The Record and Herald News on January 16, 2010print
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On January 14, 2010 Mr. Ray Buesser passed away unexpectedly. His wife, Jeanne, found him on the floor when she returned home. Within 45 minutes she had to go to the bus stop to pick up her children, Joshua and Adam, of course they did not know what happened to their father. Ray Buesser was only 49 years old.
A little while back Ray and Jeanne lost their 4 year old son Danny to Cancer. Their two remaining sons, Joshua and Adam have severe disabilities. Adam, the middle son, has Apraxia (a severe neurological disorder/Speech Disorder plus ADHD and Joshua, the youngest child, has Autism. Danny, their oldest son, had died within a week (after exploratory surgery) at 4 years of age. Due to Danny’s death, Jeanne also became a librarian and did volunteer work for a Bereavement Group called Compassionate Friends for parents who lost their children.
Their fight to be sure Joshua and Adam’s Special Needs are being met has been financially and emotionally draining and extremely hard on the family. Now with the death of Ray, Jeanne, his wife, must go it alone with raising her two disabled boys. With the death of Ray being so unexpected this makes matters worse for the whole family. She lost her husband and the boys lost their father who was one of their major supports concerning their upbringing and financial support.
Jeanne Buesser has been on The Rose Moore Show talking about the disabilities of her children to have our listeners know what to look for, what treatment is needed and what services the schools and the government can supply them. She did not want any other parents to go through what she went through in having her children diagnosed and then not having any support or knowledge to know what to do next. She is an amazing woman.
We are beseeching you to help this family out monetarily through your financial support to the Adam and Joshua Buesser Family Memorial Fund.
All checks can be sent to:
Adam and Joshua Buesser Family Memorial Fund, TD Bank
275 Forest Avenue
Paramus, NJ 07652
Account number: 4246893766
Any amount of money that you can send to this Memorial Fund will be greatly appreciated.
Sincerely,
Mrs. Rose Moore
Mrs. Rose Moore
CEO ADHD Child Advocate Services
Talk Show Host – The Rose Moore Show – Disability Radio –
*To hear Jeanne Buesser’s interviews go to and click on:
8-19-06 Jeannie Buesser- Part I Apraxia
Jeannie discusses the diagnoses and the emotional problems of children with Apraxia. She will be discussing how this disability can be misdiagnosed when in reality it is a severe neurological disorder / Speech Disorder.
9-02-06 Jeannie Buesser and Lisa Geng Part II - Apraxia
Jeanne Buesser from New Jersey and Lisa Geng from Florida discuss the Apraxia -- "Late Talkers" disability as well as the appropriate support and therapies for Apraxia children. This topic was discussed on the TV shows Inside Edition and CN8 with Lisa Geng.
And as I end each of our shows:
Remember……..whatever we do, we do it for the kids. Rose Moore