A liturgy of respect
Freddie Schoeman is leraar van die gemeente Lyttelton-Oos en Diensleier vir Aanbidding in die Oostelike Sinode.
Part of the key products that will be developed in the Season of Human Dignity are prayers and liturgies for use in the various churches. It will be in four languages and will be available to every church that would like to be part of this movement.
The prayers and liturgies will centre around the four values of the Season of Human Dignity: respecting, listening, embracing, loving.
Here is the first example of a liturgy with prayers centred around the value of respecting.
Introduction and preparation
While the participants sing a hymn of preparation, four candles representing the four values of the Season of Human Dignity are lit. Each candle can be lit by someone chosen in such a way that if different churches or communities are present, they all are represented: children, women, men, representatives of the police or other persons in a position of authority (preferably in uniform).
The different sections (reflection on the Word of God and prayers) can be read by the leader or by different people, while the prayers can also be read by the group as a whole.
1 Receiving
1.1 Reflecting on the Word of God
The respect for other people is born from our respect for God (the “fear of the Lord”). It is based on the value they have for God, the dignity God grants all people as created in God’s image.
Whoever curses a deaf person, puts a stumbling block before a blind person or causes a child to stumble will have to deal with a fearsome God (Lev 19:1-4, 9-14; Matt 18:6). In Isaiah59, God wraps God self in zeal and vengeance on behalf of those who are treated unjustly. Yet God is willing to come like a Redeemer to those who repent of their sins (v20).
Therefore our dignity, respect and self-respect, as well as that of other people, are ultimately tied up with us being in Christ who died for our sins. Christ is our wisdom, righteousness, holiness and redemption (1Cor1:26-31).
Through God’s Spirit, God restores sinners to God’s image. We no longer look at ourselves, or other people, according to human standards (v26) but through the compassionate eyes of God. We see what they are because of Christ, and what they can become through the work of the Holy Spirit.
Now, according to the strange values of God’s Kingdom, the lowly and despised are especially precious and worthy of respect (1Cor12:21-25).
At the same time the Bible calls us to have respect for those whom God appoints (with or without their knowledge) in positions of authority. Even when they fail, and when we hold them accountable, as we should, we must do that with patience and respect (Heidelberg Catechism 104 – explication of the fifth commandment).
1.2 Prayer of receiving
We praise you, o Lord, for the respect and dignity you grant each and every one of us, especially those who are despised and rejected.
We embrace the Good News that you washed away all our iniquities through Christ and poured out your Sprit abundantly on each one of us to renew us into your image.
We thank you for the gift of your body, the church, where all are welcome, accepted and respected just as they are.
We thank you for every member who shows this respect in the church and in the world, towards parents and senior citizens, towards children, towards the poor and the disabled, towards people with authority, and wherever those with authority treat others with respect and serve them as you served.
1.3 Song of praise or reading of Psalm145 (especially v8-9, 13-14) or 146:5-10.
1.4 Granting and accepting dignity
In a few moments of silence, each person enjoys the presence of the other people present, granting them dignity and accepting the dignity they grant, just by showing that it is worthwhile to be together at the feet of the Lord.
2 Sharing
2.1 Reflecting on the Word of God
In the Bible we find many examples of people who arrogantly showed complete disrespect towards others.
In Genesis 19:4-9 all the men of Sodom, young and old, wanted to rape the visitor of Lot, the alien.
In Judges 19 the wicked men of Gibeah wanted to do the same to a Levite who stayed overnight in their city. He finally gave them his concubine whom they raped and abused the whole night until she died.
In Genesis 38 Judah slept with a prostitute and later wanted his daughter-in-law to be stoned when she became pregnant, just to discover that this was caused by his own negligence and promiscuity.
According to James 2:1-4, the congregation gave special seats to the rich in fine clothes, while the poor in shabby clothes had to stand or sit on the ground. Those rich people failed to pay their workmen, and condemned and murdered innocent people.
Let us, in the light of these and other examples from Scripture, take a hard look at ourselves, our families, congregations, country and world. Where in our world do we see the worst display of disrespect? (This may include people’s lives, families, names, possessions, time, or work. It may also include nature.)
2.2 Prayer of lament
We lament, o Lord, wherever disrespect is contradicting the dignity you granted, whether it be authorities towards the people or the people towards authorities, employers towards employees or employees towards employers, young people towards older people or the other way around; wherever we treat your creation, other people’s lives, work, possessions, names, marriages and families with disrespect.
We lament wherever we contributed to such a society by not teaching and living the Gospel of your love for all.
We lament wherever our own comfortable living made us blind and apathetic towards the poverty which strips others of their dignity.
2.3 Song of lament or reading of Psalm 142 or 94.
2.4 Prayer for healing
We plead with you to bring healing and restore mutual respect in our families, our country and in the world.
We pray for a healthy and just economy, and that all role-players will sincerely contribute to such a situation where all our resources can sustainably be used to improve to quality of life of all.
We ask that you will restore respect in our communities in the following areas (participants get the opportunity to name specific areas in their communities).
We ask that you will restore respect in the world outside our own communities in the following areas (participants get the opportunity to name specific areas elsewhere in the world).
3 Giving and commitment
3.1 Reflecting on the Word of God
In the Bible we also find examples of people who showed respect to others and protected or restored their dignity (e.g. the protection Boas granted Ruth in Ruth 2:8-9; the Good Samaritan in Luke10:33-35, and Jesus’ touch healing the man with leprosy in Mark1:41).
3.2 Prayer of commitment
Oh Lord, we who received your exceeding love without any merit commit ourselves to strive every day to show that same love towards one another in our homes, congregations, schools, wherever we work and where we play, where we lead and where we follow.
3.3 Blessing
Participants get the opportunity to show respect towards one another as is accustomed in their individual cultures, or by taking hands while they sing an appropriate song and receive the final blessing. A choir can also be invited so sing here, or at 2.3, the hymn “Plea for Africa” or another appropriate hymn.