Sexualityandgenderbasedbullyinginschools
Anequalopportunityfactsheetforparents/caregivers
Whatissexualityandgenderbasedbullying?
Everyoneknowsaboutbullyinginschools.Butwhatifthebullyingbehaviourissexualinnature?
Allschoolshaveadutyofcaretotheirstudentsandbullyingisnottolerated.
Butdoesthiszerotoleranceextendtobullyingbehaviourthatissexualinnature,anddoesitapplytosexualityandgenderdiversestudentsatyourchild’sschool?
Isitagainstthelaw?
Yessexualityandgenderbasedbullyingcanbeagainstthelaw.
Ifthebullyingbehaviourissexualinnatureitcanbesexualharassment.
Justasitcanbesexualorientationdiscriminationifastudenthasbeentreatedlessfavourablybystafforstudentsbecauseoftheirsexuality,theirperceivedsexualityorthesexualityoftheirfamilyorfriends.
Sexualityandgenderbasedbullyingcanbesimilartosexualharassmentorsexualorientationdiscrimination.
Itcanbesuggestivecommentsorjokes,insultsortaunts,pictures,emailsortextssentbythebullyandintrusivequestionsaboutastudent’sprivatelife.
Itcanevenbeuseoflanguagesuchasanotherstudentsaying,“that’ssogay”.
WhatcanIdoaboutit?
Speaktoaschoolstaffmember
Everyschoolhasananti-bullyingpolicyandprocedurethatmayincludegenderandsexualitydiversebullying,somakesureyouasktheprincipalorstaffabouttheschool’scomplaintprocedure,thiswayyoucanbringthebullyingbehaviourtotheattentionoftheschoolwhichhastheresponsibility
tomakesurethebehaviourdoesn’tcontinue.
“AsaparentofalovelydaughterwhoisalsoinacommittedlesbianrelationshipIknowjusthowspecialthatrelationshipistomydaughterandmyself.Iwouldurgeallparentstosupporttheirgaychildren.”
JohnWilson
“Itcanbereallyhardtobeoutatschool.WhenmygirlfriendandIwerebullied,ithelpedtotalkaboutitwithmymumandteachers."Alex
LodgeacomplaintwiththeEOC
IfyourchildoryoufeelyouhavebeenharassedordiscriminatedagainstyoucanlodgeacomplainttotheEOCortheAustralianHumanRights
Commission.
“Everyonehastherighttobeeducatedinasafeenvironmentfreefromdiscrimination,harassmentandbullying.”WAEqualOpportunityCommissionerYvonneHenderson.
Thestaffatyourchild’sschool
WherecanIgoforhelp?
AustralianHumanRightsCommission
Approachastaffmemberyoucantrust.FreedomCentre
PH:(08)92280354
AIDSCouncilPH:(08)94820000
EqualOpportunityCommission PH:(08)92163900
TTY:(08)92163936/TollFree:1800198149
Telephone:(02)92849600
ComplaintsInfoline:1300656419
Parents,FamilyFriendsofLesbiansGays
(PFLAG)pflaHelpline(08)92281005
WAGenderProject
MYTH:Homosexualitycanbechanged
MythBusting!
inacommittedrelationshipwithonepersoneither!
FACT:Psychologistsagreethattryingtochange
aperson’ssexualityisharmful.Peoplecannotbe
‘cured’frombeinggayjustastheycannotbe
‘recruited’tobegay,lesbian,bisexualorheterosexual.
MYTH:Gaymenlesbiansdon’thavelong-termrelationships.
FACT:Gay,lesbianandbisexualpeoplecanbeinlongtermrelationships,beamemberofalovingfamilyandapartofthewidercommunity.
MYTH:Bisexualsjustcan’tmakeuptheirmind.FACT:Thepointistheyhave!Sexualityisarangebetweenexclusivelygayandexclusivelyheterosexual,andmanypeoplearenaturallyinbetween.Beingbisexualdoesn’tmeanyoucannotbe
MYTH:Transpeopleareconfusedabouttheirgender.
FACT:Transpeoplefeelverysureaboutwhatgendertheyare.Iftheyweren’t,theywouldn’triskexposuretobullyingtoliveasthatgender.
MYTH:Ifapersoniswithanotherpersonofthesamesextheymustbegay.
FACT:Sexualitycanbefluidandsomepeopleexperimentwiththeirsexuality,thisdoesnotmeantheyarenecessarilygay.
MYTH:Allgaymenare‘flaming’oreffeminateand
alllesbiansarebutch.
FACT:Lesbiansandgaymenhavethesamerangeofgenderexpressionasheterosexualpeople.
GlossaryofTerms
gender-Thesenseofselfassociatedwithcultural
definitionsofmasculinityandfemininity.
sexuality-Sexualityisacentralaspectofbeinghumanthroughoutlifeandencompassessex,genderidentitiesandroles,sexualorientation,eroticism,pleasure,intimacyandreproduction.sexually-Sexualinnature.
diversity-Stateofbeingdiverseordifferent.sexualorientation-Aperson’ssexualidentityinrelationtothegendertowhichtheyareattracted.trans-Anumbrellatermincludingtranssexualandtransgender.
transgender-Atermusedtodescribeabroad
rangeofgenderidentitiesand/orbehaviours.Thisusuallyincludesalltranspeople,butsometranssexualorothergenderdiversepeopleprefernottousethisterm.
transsexual-Apersonwholivesastheoppositesextotheoneassignedatbirthandwhomaychoosetoundergohormonetherapyorsurgery.intersex-Apersonbornwithreproductiveorgans,genitalia,hormonesand/orsexchromosomesthatarenotexclusivelymaleorfemale.
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