Warning Signs of Dating Violence
Dating Violence:
The physical, ______, verbal, or ______abuse of one partner by the other in a current or former relationship
Warning Signs of Dating Violence
Acts ______
Tries to pressure the other into sexual activity
Controlling ______
Quick Involvement (serious or exclusive right away)
Unfair Expectations
______
Blames others for problems
Overly ______
Verbal Abuse
______of Battering
Threats of Violence
Force Used During Argument
Why don’t teen break up with their abuser?
LOVE
DOUBT
Protecting Yourself From Abuse:
Spend time with others that share your ______and treat you with respect
Know your own ______with regard to sexual activity and communicate those ______to anyone you date.
Avoid ______and ______. These substances can impair your ability to make sound decisions.
Understand the ______of abuse.
Trust your “______”
Seek ______from someone you trust.
Dating 101
Know the person before you say ______
Did anyone ______you about the person?
Double date with trusted friends or go out in a ______
Go to public places
Be clear about your sexual ______
Have a cell phone
Know exit doors
Avoid alcohol and ______
Never leave your drink unattended
Make sure you have a way home
Date Rape
When one person in a dating relationship forces the other person to take part in ______
Can harm survivors physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Alcohol or drugs often involved
Drugs are often used to subdue the victim.
______like Rohypnol “roofies” are often used.
Contact doctor/hospital or police ______.
One of the crimes least likely to be reported.
You can have had prior
sexual encounters with
person and still be date raped.
College Campus Safety
Never walk home late at night by ______
Stay in well lit areas of the campus
Learn about security ______on campus
**The leading cause of arrests on most college campuses is ______related.
Help for Survivors
People who have survived rape or abuse may feel angry, confused, or ______
Survivors may withdraw from friends and family or develop symptoms of ______or anxiety
Long term problems may include alcohol or drug abuse, eating disorders, ______, and suicide
Seeking professional help is the best way to work through feelings and avoid long-term health consequences
Sources of support: parents, guardians, teachers, coaches, school nurse, guidance counselors, police, crisis centers, therapists, support groups, hospital, medical centers, shelters