Soon after Monahan's great exposure rocked the nation, many clients leaped into print to tell their experiences.
One story was told by the husband who had planned to be got away from his malicious wife with the help of the Zeritskys, and whose intentions were unfortunately discovered by her. With shrewd reasoning, she figured approximately the number of years he had chosen to be absent, and put herself away for a like period. In a TV dramatization ratherpessimistically entitledYou Can't Get Away, the husband described his sensations upon being defrosted after 15 years, only to find his wife waiting for him right there in the reception room of the Zeritsky plant.
"She was as perfectly preserved as I was," he said. "Every irritating habit that had made my life unbearable with her was absolutely intact."
Another story came from the daughter of a Zeritsky client. Her father was still, at the age of one hundred and two, passionately interested in politics, but the chances of his lasting until the next election were not good. The daughter herself suggested the deep freeze and he welcomed the idea. He decided on a twenty-year stay because, in his own words, "If the Republicans can't get into the White House in twenty years. I give up." Upon his return, he found that his condition had not been fulfilled. His daughter described him as utterly baffled by the new world. He lived in it just a week before he left it, this time for good. His last words were, "How do you people stand it?"
UNIT 6 HOW COULD ANYTHING THAT FEELS SO BAD BE SO GOOD?
Richard E. Farson
If modern life is so wonderful, why do we feel so unhappy? In the following article, the author suggests that though living standards have improved, we, rather than feeling content, never become completely satisfied with what we have achieved. This is because we always find ourselves with new and higher expectations. To meet these expectations and solve the new problems that arise, new strategies should be adopted.
1 Maybe it is time to adopt a new strategy in trying to figure out why life today is so difficult, and what can be done about it. Assume that not only are things often not what they seem, they may be just the opposite of what they seem. When it comes to human affairs, everything is paradoxical.
2 People are discontented these days, for example, not because things are worse than ever, but because things are better than ever. Take marriage. In California there are about six divorces for every ten marriages-- even higher in some of the better communities. One must admit that a good deal of discontent is reflected in those statistics. But the explanation so frequently offered -- that the institution of marriage is in a state of collapse -- simply does not hold. Marriage has never been more popular and desirable than it is now; so appealing in fact, that even those who are in the process of divorce can scarcely wait for the law to allow them to marry again.
3 The problem is that people have never before entered marriage with the high expectations they now hold. Throughout history, the family has been a vital unit for survival, starting as a defense system for physical survival, and gradually becoming a unit for economic survival. Now, of course, the family has become a physical and economic liability rather than an asset. Having met, as a society, the basic survival and security needs, people simply don't need each other anymore to fight Indians or spin yarn -- or wash dishes or repair electrical plugs for that matter. The bonds of marriage and family life are no longer functional, but affectional. People used to come to love each other because they needed each other, now it's just the other way around. They need each other because they love each other.
4 Listening to the complaints of those recently divorced, one seldom hears of brutality and desertion, but usually something like, "We just don't communicate very well", "The educational differences between us were simply too great to overcome", "I felt trapped in the relationship", "He won't let me be me", "We don't have much in common anymore". These complaints are interesting, because they reflect high-order discontent resulting from the failure of marriage to meet the great expectations held for it. Couples now expect -- and demand -- communication and understanding, shared values and goals, intellectual companionship, great moments of intimacy. By and large, marriage today actually does deliver such moments, but as a result couples have gone on to burden the relationship with even greater demands. To some extent it bas been the success of marriage that has created the discontent.
5 The same appears to be true in the civil rights movement. The gains that have been made have led not to satisfaction but to increased tension and dissatisfaction, particularly among those benefiting from such gains. The discontent is higher in the North than in the South, higher in cities than in rural areas.
6 The disturbing paradox of social change is that improvement brings the need for more improvement in constantly accelerating demands, compared to what used to be, society is way ahead; compared to what might be, it is way behind. Society is enabled to feel that conditions are rotten, because they are actually so good.
7 Another problem is that everything is temporary, nothing lasts. We have grown up with the idea that in order to develop personal security we need stability, roots, consistency, and familiarity. Yet we live in a world which in every respect is continually changing. Whether we are talking about sky-scrapers or family life, scientific facts or religious values, all are highly temporary and becoming even more so. If one were to plot a curve showing the incidence of invention throughout the history of man, one would see that change is not just increasing but actually accelerating. Changes are coming faster and faster -- in a sense change has become a way of life. The only people who will live successfully in tomorrow's world are those who can accept and enjoy temporary systems. People are also troubled because of I the new participative mood that exists today. It's a do-it-yourself society; every layman wants to get into the act. Emerson's "do your own thing" has become the clieh6 of the times. People no longer accept being passive members. They now want to be active changers.
8 This participative phenomenon can be seen in every part of contemporary life -- on campus, in the church, in the mass media, in the arts, in business and industry, on ghetto streets, in the family. The problem is that modern man seems unable to redesign his institutions fast enough to accommodate the new demands, the new indolence, the new abilities of segments of society which, heretofore, have not been taken seriously. Consequently, people are frightened by the black revolution, paralyzed by student activism, and now face what may be even more devastating -- the women's rebellion.
9 Society simply has not had these kinds of problems before, and to meet them it will have to adopt strategies for their solution that are as new, and as different, and as paradoxical as are the problems themselves. Instead of trying to reduce the discontent felt, try to raise the level or quality of the discontent. Perhaps the most that can be hoped for is to have high-order discontent in today's society, discontent about things that really matter. Rather than evaluating programs in terms of how happy they make people, how satisfied those people become, programs must be evaluated in terms of the quality of the discontent they engender. For example, if a consultant wants to assess whether or not an organization is healthy, he doesn't ask, "Is there an absence of complaints?" but rather,"What kinds of complaints are there?"
10 Instead of trying to make gradual changes in small increments, make big changes. After all, big changes are relatively easier to make than are small ones. Some people assume that the way to bring about improvement is to make the change small enough so that nobody will notice it. This approach has never worked, and one can't help but wonder why such thinking continues. Everyone knows how to resist small changes; they do it all the time. If, however, the change is big enough, resistance can't be mobilized against it. Management can make a sweeping organizational change, but just let a manager try to change someone's desk from here to there, and see the great difficulty he encounters. All change is resisted, so the question is how can the changes be made big enough so that they have a chance of succeeding?
11 Buck Minster Fuller has said that instead of reforms society needs new forms; e. g., in order to reduce traffic accidents, improve automobiles and highways instead of trying to improve drivers. The same concept should be applied to human relations. There is a need to think in terms of social architecture, and to provide arrangements among people that evoke what they really want to see in themselves. Mankind takes great pains with physical architecture, and is beginning to concern itself with the design of systems in which the human being is a component. But most of these designs are only for safety, efficiency, or productivity. System designs are not made to affect those aspects of life people care most about such as family life, romance, and esthetic experiences. Social technology as well as physical technology need to be applied in making human arrangements that will transcend anything mankind has yet experienced. People need not be victimized by their environments; they can be fulfilled by them.
12 The great frontier today is the exploration of the human potential, man's seemingly limitless ability to adapt, to grow, to invent his own destiny. There is much to learn, but we already know this: the future need not happen to us; we can make it happen.
NEW WORDS
strategy the art of planning actions that lead to gaining a goal or victory
paradox a seemingly absurd or self-contradictory statement that is or may be true; a person or situation exhibiting apparently contradictory characteristics 似非而是，自相矛盾
paradoxical of or having the nature of a paradox
discontented dissatisfied and restlessly unhappy
statistics facts and figures gathered together for information or on a particular subject 统计(资料)
Institution an established custom, law or relationship in a society or community 风俗，制度，惯例
popular enjoyed, accepted or liked by many people
desirable worthy of being desired
liability sth. for which one is responsible, esp. by law; sth, that limestone's activities or freedom
liable responsible under the law
asset sth. that is useful or valuable; (pi.) the property of a person, company, etc. 宝贵的东西，资产
anymore (used in negative sentences) any longer
yarn a long continuous thread, as of wool or cotton, used in making cloth, mats
electrical concerned with or using electricity
plug a device at the end of an electrical cord that fits into an electrical socket to make an electrical connection 播头
bond sth. that binds or unites 联结物，联系
functional made for or concerned with practical use only
function normal use; duty or work )功能
affectional relating to or implying affections 感情的
affection gentle, lasting love, like that of a parent for a child; fondness
desertion (an example of) the act of leaving one's duty, family, etc. 抛弃，遗弃
overcome fight successfully against; defeat
order kind, sort, type
intimacy a close and affectionate personal relationship; familiarity
intimate
dissatisfaction lack of satisfaction; displeasure
improvement the act of improving or the state of being improved
way far, considerably
familiarity thorough knowledge
religious of religion
plot draw (a curve) on a graph to show certain stated facts
incidence the rate at which sth. happens or exists 发生率
participative characterized by participation; participating
layman a person who does not have specialized or professorial knowledge of a subject 门外汉,外行
passive not joining in or taking part; net acting
contemporary belonging to the present time; of or belonging to the same time
changer one who makes change
medium a method for giving information; form of art 媒介,艺术手段
mass media the means of communication that reach large numbers of people in a short time, such as radio, television, newspapers, magazines,
activism the process of campaigning in public or working for an organization in order to bring about political or social change
rebellion the act of rebelling; open defiance go authority
engender bring about; produce
assess estimate the value or amount of; evaluate
gradual happening or developing slowly and by degrees; not sudden
increment an increase or addition, esp. one of a series
resist work or light against
resistance
mobilize organize for a purpose 动员
organizational of or having to do with organization
reform an improvement, esp. one made by removing faults or abuses 改革
arrangement a plan made in preparation for sth.
component any of the parts that together make a whole machine or system
romance a love affair
esthetics having to do with beauty and the appreciation of beauty in nature and art 审美的
victimize cause to suffer unfairly
victim a person or animal sacrificed, injured or destroyed; a person who sulfurs some hardship or loss 牺牲者,受害者
environment the physical and social conditions in which people live
fulfill supply or satisfy
frontier an area or field not yet developed
exploration the act of traveling in little known lands or seas for the purpose of discovery
explore examine sth .thoroughly in order to test or find out about it
seemingly in appearance; apparently
limitless without limit or end
Phrases & expressions
when it comes to when it concerns
for that matter with regard to that; about that
the other way round in the opposite order
In terms of in regard to; especially about
bring about cause; produce; lead to
can't help but can only; be forced to
take (great) pains (with/to do) try hard (to do)
Unit 7 Our Way of Life Makes Us Miserable
Erich From
1 Most Americans believe that our society of consumption-happy, fun-loving, jet traveling people creates the greatest happiness for the greatest number. Contrary to this view, believe that our present way of life leads to increasing anxiety, helplessness and, eventually, to the disintegration of our culture. I refuse identify fun with pleasure, consumption with joy, busyness with happiness, or the faceless, buck-passing "organization man with an independent individual.
2 From this critical view our rates of alcoholism, suicide and divorce, as well as juvenile delinquency, gang rule, acts of violence and indifference to life, are characteristic symptoms of our "pathology of normalcy". It may be argued that all these pathological phenomena exist because we have not yet reached our aim, that of an affluent society. It is true, we are still far from being an affluent society. But the material progress made in the last decades allows us to hope that our system might eventually produce a materially affluent sectary. Yet will we be happier then? The example of Sweden, one of the most prosperous, democratic and peaceful European countries, is not very encouraging: Sweden, as is often pointed out, in spite of all its material security has among the highest alcoholism and suicide rates in Europe, while a much poorer country like Ireland ranks among the lowest in these respects. Could it be that our dream that material welfare per se leads to happiness is just a pipe dream?...
3 Certainly the humanist thinkers of the eighteenth and nineteenth centuries, who are our ideological ancestors, thought that the goal of life was the full unfolding of a person's potentialities; what mattered to them was the person who is much not the one who has much or uses much. For them economic production was a means to the unfolding of man, notch end. It seems that today the means have become ends, that not only "God is dead", as Nietzsche said in the nineteenth century, but also man is dead; that what is alive are the organizations, the machines, and that man has become their slave rather than being their master.
4 Each society creates its own type of personality by its way of bringing up children in the family, by its system of education, by its effective values (thatis, those values that are rewarded rather than only preached). Every society creates the type of "social character" which is needed for its proper functioning. It forms men who want to do what they have to do. What kind of men does our large-scale, bureaucratized industrialism need?
5 It needs men who cooperate smoothly in large groups, who want to consume more and more, and whose tastes are standardized and can be easily influenced and anticipated. It needs men who feel free and independent, yet who are willing to be commanded, to do what is expected, to fit into the social machine without friction, men who can be guided without force, led without leaders, prompted without an aim except the aim to be on the move, to function, to go ahead.