Saying goodbye to your pet
Saying Goodbye
It is difficult to imagine a life without our beloved pets. We like to think that they will always be with us. Sadly we know that this cannot be so and at some point we will have to face, and come to terms with, their loss.
We hope our pets will gently pass away in their sleep. It would save us from having to make a very difficult decision. Unfortunately it rarely happens this way and we then have to discuss putting our pet to sleep (euthanasia) with our veterinary surgeon.
Euthanasia when carried out at the right time is one of the last acts of kindness we can do for our pets, but for many owners the procedure is an unknown and therefore frightening prospect.
The following is a guide to assist you through the process of euthanasia and the aftercare options available. It is hoped that knowing what to expect at this sad time will be of help to you.
How will I know when the time has come?
This is a common question to which there is no easy or right answer. It will be a decision made by careful consideration and consultation between yourself and your veterinary surgeon.
Where will euthanasia take place?
The euthanasia can be carried out here at the practice or, if you prefer, in your own home. If you wish to visit the practice with your pet we will endeavour to arrange for you to come at a quiet time and arrange for you to have privacy before and after the euthanasia. If you request a home visit we will try to arrange a mutually convenient time.
Who will carry out the procedure?
Whenever possible we will try to ensure that you see the veterinary surgeon who has been dealing with your pet’s case, or the veterinary surgeon of your choice.
Will I be able to stay with my pet?
The decision of whether or not to stay with your pet is entirely yours. There is no right or wrong answer; it is simply a matter of whatever feels right for you and your pet. Whether you choose to stay or not, you will be able to spend time with him or her afterwards if you wish.
What happens when my pet is euthanased?
The veterinary surgeon will firstly fully explain the procedure to you. They will discuss with you whether your pet is to be sedated using injectable sedative prior to euthanasia injection being given. If a sedative is used, your pet will very quietly over a period of a couple of minutes fall asleep and become unaware of anything further that happens.
Most euthanasia injections are given intravenously so a small area of hair will be clipped from a front leg in order to visualise the vein into which the injection is to be given. A nurse will then hold the front leg in order that the vet can inject into the vein. Within a few seconds of injecting the drug, breathing will cease followed by the heart stopping. The vet will monitor this closely and inform you when this has happened.
Our aim is to make the whole procedure as peaceful and gentle as practically possible for both your pet and you.
What happens to my pet afterwards?
You may take your pet with you for a home burial if you wish. However, we work with a private, professional crematorium that can take your pet and offers you a variety of services.
These are:
· General Cremation: In this case your pet would be cremated with other animals.
· Individual Cremation: Your pet will be individually cremated and the ashes will be returned to you. These can be contained in a wooden casket for permanent retention or, it you wish to scatter your pet’s ashes, in a tasteful disposable box.
Please ask the customer care team or veterinary nurse for a leaflet about these services and their charges, alternatively we can forward a brochure for you to consider your options at home.
Do I have to decide right away?
It may be easier for you to decide on the aftercare of your pet before euthanasia, as it is not an easy decision to make, especially if you are distressed. However, if you need to think it over, or discuss the options with your family, we will keep your pet at the practice for a short while until you contact us with instructions.
What about me… how will I feel?
Everyone is different and we all react differently in this situation. Most of us find the loss of our pets difficult to deal with. The depth of feelings can take us by surprise and can almost overwhelm us. Some of us feel guilty – that it is somehow wrong to feel this way over an animal. Be assured that the way you feel is perfectly natural, that it is normal to grieve for a loved one – human or animal.
Is there anyone I can talk to?
If you want to talk to someone, feel free to contact the practice and speak to the vet who has been treating your pet. Alternatively, we have an experienced and skilled team of trained nurses who may be able to share your concerns, and talk through your feelings with you. We are here to help you, and your pet.
If you would like any further information please do not hesitate to get in touch by telephone on 01278 459913, or alternatively by email on
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