A EUCHARISTIC WEDDING CELEBRATION
INTRODUCTORY RITES
Commentator:Today we come together to celebrate and witness with joy the union of N. and N. in the love of Christ in the holy Sacrament of Matrimony. Let us offer our prayers for them that God may shower upon them graces as they begin their new life together. Let us all witness in this momentous even in the life of N. and N. We now welcome the bridal couple and their entourage.
(The Wedding March starts)
Please all stand.
Priest :In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
All : Amen.
Priest: The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God and the
communion of the Holy Spirit be with you all.
All : And with your spirit.
Priest:Dearly beloved N. and N., God is love and has in a mysterious way, drawn you together in love. But He leaves you free to make that love grow or to let it wither and die. The Lord will help you make it grow, if you do your share, and to stand to the commitment in the covenant which you are about to seal.
PENITENTIAL RITE:
Priest : My brothers and sisters, to prepare ourselves for the celebration of love and union of N and N., let us, together with them, call to mind God’s love for us and acknowledge how we have failed to love one another.
Priest : Love is patient and kind. It is never rude nor selfish. For the times we thought only of ourselves. Lord, have mercy.
All: Lord, have mercy.
Priest : Love delights in the truth. For the times we were not true to ourselves and to our calling. Christ, have mercy
All : Christ have mercy.
Priest : Love is always ready to forgive, to trust, to hope and to endure whatever comes . For the times we gave up on ourselves and on one another. Lord have mercy.
All : Lord, have mercy.
Priest : May almighty God have mercy on us, forgive us our sins and bring us to everlasting life.
All :Amen.
Priest:Let us pray.
Grant, we pray, almighty God, that these your servants, N. and N., now to be joined by the Sacrament of Matrimony, may grow in the faith they profess and enrich your Church with faithful offspring. Through our Lord Jesus Christ, your Son, who lives and reigns with you in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, for ever and ever.
All :Amen.
Commentator:Please be seated for the liturgy of the word.
Liturgy of the Word
FIRST READING
A reading from the book of Tobit ( 8:4-9 )
Tobias rose from the bed, and said to Sarah, “Get up my sister! You and I must pray and petition our Lord to win his grace and his protection.” She stood up, and they began praying for protection, and this was how they began: “You are blessed, O God of our fathers; blessed, too is your name for ever and ever. Let the heaven bless you and all things you have made for evermore. “It was you who created Adam, you who created Eve his wife to be his help and support; and from these two the human race was born. It was you who said, ‘It is not good that the man should be alone; let us make him a helpmate like himself.’ And so I do not take my sister for any lustful motive; I do it in singleness of heart. Be kind enough to have pity on her and on me and bring us to old age together.” And she said with him, “Amen.” Then they both went to sleep for the night.
The Word of the Lord.
All :Thanks be to God.
RESPONSORIAL PSALM (Ps. 32:12.18.20-22)
Response : The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord.
- They are happy, whose God is the Lord,
the people he has chosen as his own.
The Lord looks on those who revere him,
on those who hope in his love.
All : The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord.
- Our soul is waiting for the Lord;
The Lord is our help and our shield.
In him do our hearts find joy.
We trust in his holy name.
All : The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord.
- May your love be upon us, O Lord,
as we place all our hope in you.
All : The earth is full of the goodness of the Lord.
SECOND READING
A reading from the Letter of St. Paul to the Colossians (3:12-17)
You are God’s chosen race, his saints; he loves you, and you should be clothed in sincere compassion, in kindness and humility, gentleness and patience.Bear with one another; forgive each other as soon as quarrel begins. The Lord has forgiven you; now you must do the same.Over all these clothes, to keep them together and complete them, put on love.And may the peace of Christ reign in your hearts, because it is for this that you were called together as parts of one body. Always be thankful.Let the message of Christ, in all its richness, find a home with you. Teach each other, and advise each other, in all wisdom. With gratitude in your hearts, sing Psalms and hymns and inspired songs to God;and never say or do anything except in the name of the Lord Jesus, giving thanks to God the Father through him.
The Word of the Lord.
All : Thanks be to God.
Commentator:Please stand to honor the gospel.
ALLELUIA-ACCLAMATION (1 Jn. 4:12)
Alleluia, Alleluia, Alleluia
GOSPEL
Priest: The Lord be with you.
All: And with your Spirit.
Priest: A reading from the Holy Gospel according to John (15:9-12)
All:Glory to you O Lord.
Priest:Jesus said to his disciples: “As the Father has loved me, so I have loved you. Remain in my love.If you keep my commandments you will remain in my love, just as I have kept my Father’s commandments and remain in his love. I have told you this so that my own joy may be in you and yourjoy be complete. This is my commandment: love one another, as I have loved you.”
The Gospel of the Lord.
All : Praise to you, Lord Jesus Christ.
Commentator:Please be seated for the homily
HOMILY
RITE OF MARRIAGE
Commentator: Please remain seated for the rite of marriage. May we request N. and N. to please come forward to light the candles.
lighting of candles
Commentator:May we request N. and N. to stand up. May we also ask their parents and principal sponsors to please come forward and stand at either side of the couple to witness their exchange of vows.
Allocution
Priest : Dear beloved N. and N., you are here today to seal your love
with an eternal bond before the Church. I assure you of the prayers of our community that God may pour his abundant blessings on your love and help you to carry out the duties of the married state.
And you, dear brothers and sisters, may I ask you to help them with your prayers and accept them as a new couple in our Christian community.
Scrutiny
Priest : May I now ask you to answer truthfully the following
questions.
(to the bride) : N., Did you come here of your own free will to bind
yourself forever in the love and service of your husband?
Bride : Yes, Father.
Priest : (to the bridegroom) : N., Did you come here of your own free will
to bind yourself forever in the love and service of your
wife?
Groom: Yes, Father.
Priest (to both) : Are you both ready to raise as good Christians the
children whom God will give you?
Both : Yes Father.
EXCHANGE OF CONSENT
Priest : N. and N., since you wish to contract holy matrimony, please join
your right hands and express your intention before God and His Church. N., do you take N. here present, for your lawful husband according to the rite of our holy Mother, the Church?
Bride : Yes, I do
Priest:Do you give yourself to him as his wife?
Bride:Yes, I do.
Priest:Do you accept him as your lawful husband?
Bride:Yes, I do.
Priest: ( name of groom ) do you take ( name of bride ) here present, for
your lawful wife according to the rite of our holy Mother, the church?
Groom:Yes, I do.
Priest:Do you give yourself to her as her husband?
Groom:Yes, I do.
Priest:Do you accept her as your lawful wife?
Groom:Yes, I do.
Priest:Now, please say together with (or after) me:
Grant us, O Lord to be one heart and one soul from this day forward for better, for worse for richer, for poorer in sickness and in health until death do us part.
lighting of THE UNITY candles ( OPTIONAL )
CONFIRMATION OF THE MARRIAGE BOND
Priest:And I, by the authority of the church, calling on all those present here as witnesses, confirm and bless the bond of the marriage which you have contracted. In the name of the Father, and of the Son, and of the Holy Spirit.
All:Amen
BLESSING OF THE ARRHAE AND RINGS
Priest:( N. and N. ) we shall now bless your arrhae and rings.
Our help is in the name of the Lord.
All.He made heaven and earth.
Priest:Let us pray.
Bless (+) O Lord, your servants ( N and N.) with sufficiency material possessions which these arrhae symbolize so that they may use them to attain eternal life. through Christ our Lord.
All.Amen.
Priest:Bless (+) O Lord, these rings so that your servants ( N. and N. ) who wear them may ever live in mutual love and in unbroken loyalty. Through Christ our Lord.
All.Amen.
GIVING OF THE WEDDING RINGS AND THE ARRHAE
Groom:N. wear this ring as a sign of my love and loyalty. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Bride:N. wear this ring as a sign of my love and loyalty. In the name of the father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Groom:I give you these arrhae as a pledge of my dedication to your and the welfare of your future children. In the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit.
Bride:And I accept them.
BLESSING AND PRESENTATION OF THE BIBLE (Optional)
Priest:Bless (+) O Lord this Holy Bible, so that your servants, N. and N., who read it may find guidance, strength, wisdom and God’s assurance of steadfast love in Jesus Christ. Bless the home and family of N. and N. We ask this through Christ our Lord.
All:Amen.
Priest:N. and N., accept this Holy Bible, the Living Word of God. May His words be the source of your joy and strength as you live together for life.
Presentation of the newly weds to the community.
Commentator:Please all stand for the Prayers of the Faithful
PRAYERS OF THE FAITHFUL
Priest:Dearly beloved, let us now pray for the Church and for our newly wedded couple whose marriage reflects Her union with Christ.
Leader:For the Holy Church spread over the world, for its leaders and for the rulers of our nation, let us pray to the Lord.
All:Lord, graciously hear us.
Leader:For the poor and the sick and all those in trial and affliction, let us pray to the Lord.
All:Lord , graciously hear us.
Leader:For N. and N. that He may keep their hearts united forever, let us pray to the Lord.
All:Lord, graciously hear us.
Leader:That, He may protect them from evil, lighten their burdens and fortify them in their trials, let us pray to the Lord.
All:Lord, graciously hear us.
Leader:That He may stir up the grace of the Sacrament in all married couples here present, let us pray to the Lord.
All.Lord, graciously hear us.
Priest:Almighty, eternal God look down with favor upon your servants. Grant them to remain faithful to you and to one another. At the end of a long and well-spent life, reward them with eternal happiness together with (their children and with) all those who love them. Through Christ our Lord.
All:Amen.
Commentator:Please be seated
- LAYING OF THE VEIL & THE CORD
Commentator:The secondary sponsors may now lay the veil and the cord on our newly weds.
OFFERTORY (offering of gifts)
LITURGY OF THE EUCHARIST
Priest:Pray. brethren, that my sacrifice and yours may be acceptable to God, the Almighty Father.
People:May the Lord accept the sacrifice at your hands for the praise and glory of his name, for our good, and the good of all his holy Church.
Commentator:Please stand.
Priest:Show favor to our supplications, O Lord, and receive with a kindly countenance the oblations we offer for these your servants, N. and N., joined now in a holy covenant, that through these mysteries they may be strengthened in love for one another and for you. Through Christ our Lord.
People:Amen.
EUCHARISTIC PRAYER II
Priest:The Lord be with you.
People:And with your spirit.
Priest:Lift up your hearts.
People:We lift them up to the Lord.
Priest:Let us give thanks to the Lord our God.
People:It is right and just.
Priest:It is truly right and just, our duty and our salvation, always and everywhere to give you thanks, Lord holy Father, almighty and eternal God.
For you willed that the human race, created by the gift of your goodness, should be raised to such high dignity that in the union of husband and wife you might bestow a true image of your love.
For those you created out of charity you call to the law of charity without ceasing and grant them share in your eternal charity.
And so, the Sacrament of holy Matrimony, as the abiding sign of your own love, consecrates the love of man and woman, through Christ our Lord.
Through him, with the Angels and all the Saints, we sing the hymn of your praise, as without end we acclaim:
People:Holy, Holy, Holy Lord God of hosts.
Heaven and earth are full of your glory.
Hosanna in the highest.
Blessed is he who comes in the name of the Lord.
Hosanna in the highest.
Commentator:Please kneel
Priest:Your are indeed Holy, O Lord, the fount of all holiness. Make holy, therefore, these gifts, we pray, by sending down your Spirit upon them like the dewfall, so that they may become for us the Body and + Blood of our Lord, Jesus Christ.
At the time he was betrayed and entered willingly into his Passion, he took break and, giving thanks, broke it, and gave it to his disciples, saying:
TAKE THIS, ALL OF YOU, AND EAT OF IT, FOR THIS IS MY BODY, WHICH WILL BE GIVEN UP FOR YOU.
In a similar way, when supper was ended, he took the chalice and, once more giving thanks, he gave it to his disciples, saying:
TAKE THIS, ALL OF YOU, AND DRINK FROM IT, FOR THIS IS THE CHALICE OF MY BLOOD, THE BLOOD OF THE NEW AND ETERNAL COVENANT, WHICH WILL BE POURED OUT FOR YOU AND FOR MANY FOR THE FORGIVENESS OF SINS. DO THIS IN MEMORY OF ME.
The mystery of faith.
People:When we eat this Bread and drink this Cup, we proclaim your Death, O Lord, until you come again.
Commentator:Please stand
Priest:Therefore, as we celebrate the memorial of his Death and Resurrection, we offer you, Lord, the Bread of Life and the Chalice of salvation, giving thanks that you have held us worthy to be in your presence and minister to you.
Humbly we pray that, partaking of the Body and Blood of Christ, we may be gathered into one by the Holy Spirit.
Remember, Lord your Church, spread throughout the world, and bring her to the fullness of charity, together with Francis, our Pope and Luis Antonio, our Archbishop, his assistant Bishops and all the clergy.
Remember also our brothers and sisters who have fallen asleep in the hope of the resurrection, and all who have died in your mercy: welcome them into the light of your face. Have mercy on us all, we pray, that with the Blessed Virgin Mary, Mother of God, St. Joseph, her most chaste espouse, with the Blessed Apostles, and all the Saints who have pleased you throughout the ages, and may praise and glorify you through your Son, Jesus Christ.
Through him, and with him, and in him, O God, almighty Father, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, all glory and honor is yours, forever and ever.
People:AMEN.
COMMUNION RITE
Priest:At the Savior’s command and formed by divine teaching, we dare to say:
All:Our Father who art in heaven, hallowed be thy name; thy kingdom come,thy will be done,on earth as it is in heaven. Give us this day our daily bread and forgive us our trespasses, as we forgive those who trespass against us; and lead us not into temptation, but deliver us from evil.