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Chapter 4 Notes: From Birth to Death: Life-Span Development

-each life stage resents new developmental tasks that must be mastered for optimal development

Erik Erickson: psychosocial dilemma or crisis (conflict between personal impulses and social world)

Table 4.1

Stage 1: (1st year of life): Trust vs. Mistrust

-trust comes from care, touching

-mistrust comes from inadequate or unpredictable care

Stage 2: (1 to 3 years): Autonomy vs. Shame and Doubt

-child trying new things (autonomy)

-same and doubt from parents’ ridicule

Stage 3: ( 3 to 5 years) Initiative vs. Guilt

-take initiative carry out tasks

-guilt if parents criticize)

Stage 4: (6 to 12 years): Industry vs. Inferiority

-schools is “entrance into life” (experience success or failure

-teachers, peers, and other non-family shape attitude toward oneself

Stage 5: (Adolescence): Identity vs. Role Confusion

-“Who am I?”

-not child, not adult

-mental, physical, sexual maturation

Stage 6: (Young Adulthood): Intimacy vs. Isolation

-after establishing identity, share love

-intimacy: ability to care about others and to share experiences with them

Stage 7: (Middle Adulthood): Generativity vs. Stagnation

-guiding next generation, creative work, concerns turn outwards vs.

concern with own interests

Stage 8: (Late Adulthood): Integrity vs. Despair

-old age is time of reflection, look back with acceptance and satisfaction

Problems of childhood

Normal problems: sleep, specific fears, timidity, dissatisfaction, negativism, restlessness

Children and Divorce

-almost ½ of U.S. marriages

-60% of children born in 1990’s will be in single-parent families at some

point

-stepfamilies = 1/6 of two-parent families

-children of divorce are more distressed, have more behavior problems

-children of divorced and remarried families: more problems in school,

delinquency, drugs, lower self-esteem

-majority of children from divorce do not have serious problems

Serious Childhood Problems

-enuresis, encopresis

-eating disorders

-speech problems (delayed, stuttering)

-learning disorders

-ADHD

-conduct disorders

-autism (echolalia, self-stimulatory behavior, social immaturity)

-only 25% approach normality, only 2% can live alone

Child Abuse

-3 ½ to 14% of children are physically abused by their parents

-abusive parents have high levels of stress and frustration

-abusive mothers believe children intentionally annoy them

-1/3 of parents who were abused mistreat their children

Puberty

-biological

-ages 9 to 12 in girls, 11 to 14 in boys

-hormonal changes

-rapid physical growth

-sexual maturity (intellectual and social maturity may lag)

Early and Late Maturation

Timing: for boys, maturing early is beneficial (more mature, self-assured,

popular)

-also increased trouble with drugs, alcohol, truancy

-early-maturing girls: initially have poor self-image, decreased

prestige, which reverses in junior high

-date sooner, earlier sex, more independent

Children who look like adults may be treated like adults

Search for Identity

-ethnic ID

-formal operations; hypothesize “What if?”

-conflict with parents

Peer Groups

-adolescence: increased identification with peer groups

-share similar social status

Transition to Adulthood

-longer to commit to career, marriage

Moral Development

-questions of conscience

-starts in childhood and continues into young adulthood

-acquire values, beliefs that guide responsible behavior

Kohlberg

Preconventional: punishment orientation; pleasure-seeking;

own interests

Conventional:good boy/good girl orientation; brings approval;

authority orientation, following rules

Post-Conventional:social contract orientation; mutual agreement and

support of laws; morality of individual principles;

self-chosen ethics

Moral Dilemmas

-not everyone reaches the highest moral stage

-20% reach post-conventional

Gilligan said that Kohlberg’s system is concerned mainly with justice; he felt that caring should also be involved

Adult Development

Ages 16 to 18:Escape from Dominance

Ages 18 to 22:Leaving the family; forming new relationships

Ages 22 to 28:Building a workable life; career, marriage

Ages 29 to 34:Crisis of questions: “Is this it?”

Ages 35 to 43:Crisis of urgency; reality of death

Ages 44 to 50:Attaining stability; acceptance of one’s fate

Ages 50 and up:Mellowing; savor life; less emphasis on glamour, wealth

Midlife crisis: 23%

Middle Age

-menopause in females (mean age = 51)

-empty nest: depression when last child leaves home

-more likely for traditional women who primarily

defined themselves as wives and mothers

Well-Being at Midlife

-self-acceptance

-positive relations with others

-autonomy (personal freedom)

-environmental mastery

-purpose in life

-continual personal growth

Aging

-elderly are the fastest growing segment of society

-peak functioning 25 to 30 years old

-5% of those over 65 are in nursing homes

Mental Abilities

-little decrease in IQ with aging, especially crystallized IQ

Myths about Aging

-not isolated or rejected by their children

-not put in mental hospitals by uncaring children

-few show signs of senility

Kubler-Ross

-emotional reaction to impending death

-denial and isolation

-anger

-bargaining

-depression

-acceptance