101 Ways to Make Love Without Having Sex

  1. Talk about what love means to you
  2. Tell each other what makes them (and you!) so special
  3. Plant flowers
  4. Make a handmade card
  5. Have deep, meaningful conversations
  6. Treat each other well
  7. Smile at each other
  8. Tell each other about your favourite place in Israel
  9. Make a playlist
  10. Talk about your feeling
  11. Find a solution to a problem
  12. Send a package to an Israeli soldier
  13. Spend an evening watching a film
  14. Tell each other why you don't want to be with anyone else
  15. Go to an art exhibition
  16. Support a charity together
  17. Sort out disagreements
  18. Write love letters
  19. Discuss TikkunOlum
  20. Make friends with each other’s friends
  21. Go to a concert together
  22. Learn the ukulele
  23. Play scrabble
  24. Observe the stars together
  25. Bake someone a cake together
  26. Introduce each other to new people
  27. Walk a neighbour’s dog
  28. Visit a museum together
  29. Give a token from the heart
  30. Visit your families together
  31. Design your names together in a logo
  32. Phone each other just to say "Hello" or "Good Night"
  33. Play cards together
  34. Share a facebook post that will make the other laugh
  35. Talk about the reasons for your decision to wait to have sex
  36. Go somewhere meaningful or special
  37. Have a romantic picnic in the park
  38. Tell each other your earliest childhood memory
  39. Send a cute text message
  1. Volunteer in a youth organisation/movement
  2. Write suggestions on improving the country to the Prime Minister
  3. Buy each other yoyos and play
  4. Play non-stop cricket with a crowd of friends
  5. Go hiking together
  6. Be each other’s best friend
  7. Sit and talk for a long time
  8. Read a joke book together
  9. Share thoughts
  10. Make each other something out of clay
  11. Sing each other a song
  12. Do the things you used to do when you first met
  13. Visit the elderly
  14. Build a stronger relationship
  15. Tidy each other’s rooms
  16. Design your ideal app
  17. Tell each other why you care
  18. Draw a picture with crayons
  19. Stick up for each other if you get in trouble
  20. Tell each other you'll always be there
  21. Be sensitive
  22. Actively listen
  23. Go out of your way for each other
  24. Design a Jewish superhero cartoon
  25. Tell each other what you appreciate about the other
  26. Run a stand up comedy night
  27. Write a pop song. Send it to a famous singer.
  28. Carry his/ her books home from school
  29. Sponsor each other to raise money for a cause you both believe in
  30. Share headphones and have a silent disco. Ideally while making a cuppa.
  31. Organise a fund raising committee for that charity
  32. Help at a drop in centre
  33. Read PirkeAvot (Ethics of the Fathers)
  34. Leave a little love note in his/her pocket
  35. Dedicate a song on the radio
  36. Learn to speak Hebrew together
  37. Go to a party
  38. Arrange a day out for children
  39. Watch each other compete in a sporting event
  40. Spend a day at a fun fair
  41. Support each other’s school work
  42. Plan a magical mystery bus tour for him/her
  43. Pay attention to each other’s likes and dislikes
  44. Take photos of your favourite places
  45. In chalk, draw a heart on a tree and put both names in the middle
  46. Learn Jewish texts together
  47. Send each other cards in the post
  48. Collect litter together
  49. Write to newspapers about how you would improve the world
  1. Learn how to become hospital clowns together
  2. In winter, throw snowballs
  3. Offer to babysit – for free - for a couple with children
  4. Write a short story about a couple who are choosing not to have sex
  1. Make soup together, and take it over to someone who is sick
  2. Carry pictures of each other
  3. Organise a sporting event for all your friends
  4. Welcome new people into your lives
  5. Watch a sunset together
  6. Be faithful
  7. Care abundantly for each other, and for the people surrounding you.
  8. Share this list with others. Create your own list to share!
  9. Make love every day with your girl/boyfriend - without having sex

Written with love by Shelley Marsh

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