Understanding What Your Teacher Means

What Your Teacher Says . . . / What your Teacher Means . . .
Raise your hand before speaking / Raise your hand and wait to be called on to speak.
Finish your work before you go home. / Try to get all your work done before it is time to go home so that you can ask questions if you need to and get help.
Stay in your seat. / Only get up if you need something and have asked to go and get it.
Get to work. Get back on task. / Work actively on your assignment in class without distracting yourself or others.
Work smarter, not harder / Take your time and do it correctly the first time so you don’t have to re-do the work.
Give 100% / Try your best.
Get organized / Clear off items on the top of your desk that you don’t need such as extra papers, pencils, books, etc.
This work should be your own. / Put the information into your own words. Don’t copy from the book, the internet, your classmates, or the board.
Hint, Hint / This information will most likely be on the test or quiz.

Understanding What Your Teacher Means

What Your Teacher Says . . . / What your Teacher Means . . .
Raise your hand before speaking / Raise your hand and wait to be called on to speak.
Finish your work before you go home. / Try to get all your work done before it is time to go home so that you can ask questions if you need to and get help.
Stay in your seat. / Only get up if you need something and have asked to go and get it.
Get to work. Get back on task. / Work actively on your assignment in class without distracting yourself or others.
Work smarter, not harder / Take your time and do it correctly the first time so you don’t have to re-do the work.
Give 100% / Try your best.
Get organized / Clear off items on the top of your desk that you don’t need such as extra papers, pencils, books, etc.
This work should be your own. / Put the information into your own words. Don’t copy from the book, the internet, your classmates, or the board.
Hint, Hint / This information will most likely be on the test or quiz.

Building a Reputation

Your reputation is an important part of school and developing the person you will become later in life.

You build your reputation by creating an understanding of HOW you want other people to perceive you.

Factors that involve building a reputation include:

  • Who you hang out with, your role models
  • Activities you participate in, your responsibilities
  • What you talk about and the “language” you use when talking, showing respect
  • How you treat other people, trust
  • Your overall personality, self-esteem

Building a Reputation

Your reputation is an important part of school and developing the person you will become later in life.

You build your reputation by creating an understanding of HOW you want other people to perceive you.

Factors that involve building a reputation include:

  • Who you hang out with, your role models
  • Activities you participate in, your responsibilities
  • What you talk about and the “language” you use when talking, showing respect
  • How you treat other people, trust
  • Your overall personality, self-esteem

Positive Behavior vs. Negative Behavior

Positive Behaviors. How often do you show these behaviors in your life?

  • I respect others personal space
  • I give compliments
  • I take responsibility for my “out of place” behavior
  • I use the proper gestures when greeting new people.
  • I make polite requests to classmates and teachers.
  • I make polite requests to adults and parents.
  • I express “thanks”.
  • I am good at sports.
  • I am a team player.
  • I join groups and interact with my peers.
  • I apologize to others.

What about Negative Behaviors. How often do I show these in my life?

  • I tattle or tell on other students.
  • I argue or fight with other students.
  • I argue or fight with teacher, adults, or parents.
  • I make comments that may make others feel sad or angry.
  • I use a rude tone of voice when addressing others.
  • I violate others personal space.
  • I refuse to take responsibility for my actions and blame things on other people.

Positive Behavior vs. Negative Behavior

Positive Behaviors. How often do you show these behaviors in your life?

  • I respect others personal space
  • I give compliments
  • I take responsibility for my “out of place” behavior
  • I use the proper gestures when greeting new people.
  • I make polite requests to classmates and teachers.
  • I make polite requests to adults and parents.
  • I express “thanks”.
  • I am good at sports.
  • I am a team player.
  • I join groups and interact with my peers.
  • I apologize to others.

What about Negative Behaviors. How often do I show these in my life?

  • I tattle or tell on other students.
  • I argue or fight with other students.
  • I argue or fight with teacher, adults, or parents.
  • I make comments that may make others feel sad or angry.
  • I use a rude tone of voice when addressing others.
  • I violate others personal space.
  • I refuse to take responsibility for my actions and blame things on other people.

Executive Function Skills

Every student should have the following skills and be able to apply them in class at all times.

Emotional Control:I recognize my feeling and act on them so that I don’t hurt myself or others with my words or actions.

Take Initiation:I am able to recognize what needs to be done and how to get started.

Response Inhibition:I ignore things in my environment or chose when to respond instead of reacting with emotion.

Planning:I pay attention to sequence or steps I need to take in order to reach my goal.

Organization:I am able to identify and collect all materials needed to complete something, including where to find the needed materials in class.

Working Memory:I use my temporary workspace in my brain to manipulate and process information.

Time Management:I stay aware of how much time it is taking me to work on something so I can finish on time.

Task Initiation:I begin a task or activity and then independently generate ideas, responses and problem solving strategies, asking questions if I need to.

Executive Function Skills

Every student should have the following skills and be able to apply them in class at all times.

Emotional Control:I recognize my feeling and act on them so that I don’t hurt myself or others with my words or actions.

Take Initiation:I am able to recognize what needs to be done and how to get started.

Response Inhibition:I ignore things in my environment or chose when to respond instead of reacting with emotion.

Planning:I pay attention to sequence or steps I need to take in order to reach my goal.

Organization:I am able to identify and collect all materials needed to complete something, including where to find the needed materials in class.

Working Memory:I use my temporary workspace in my brain to manipulate and process information.

Time Management:I stay aware of how much time it is taking me to work on something so I can finish on time.

Task Initiation:I begin a task or activity and then independently generate ideas, responses and problem solving strategies, asking questions if I need to.

When I am trying to improve my skills or grow as a person I . . .

  1. Need others to help me understand my weaknesses
  2. Recognize areas I need to improve, but do not know how to get started.
  3. Identify my target and can create and start a plan to reach my goal.

When I disagree with others I . . .

  1. Get upset and say things that are mean or angry.
  2. Try to argue or cry to get my way.
  3. Stay calm and say “Ok, I disagree with you because . . .”

When I don’t like something I . . .

  1. Say or do things the way I want them done.
  2. Try to listen but in the end do it my own way anyway.
  3. After options are presented do things another way.

When I see something I want for myself I . . .

  1. Take it for myself.
  2. Try to identify who it belongs to.
  3. Leave it alone or find out where I can get my own.

When I am struggling with something I . . .

  1. Need others to help me understand what is wrong and how to fix it.
  2. Recognize what to do to fix it, but don’t know how to get started.
  3. Identify what is wrong and can take steps to solve the problem.

When I am given a choice I . . .

  1. Need others to help me identify the possible positive and negative outcomes.
  2. Recognize the positive and negative outcomes, but am still unsure of what to choose.
  3. Create a list of negative and positive outcomes to make my choice and then follow through on my choice.

When I am feeling overwhelmed or too much I . . .

  1. Need help in identifying what will help me feel better.
  2. Recognize what strategies are available to me, but need help in implementing the strategy or support.
  3. Identify a strategy and can implement the strategy independently or ask for help when necessary.

When I make a bad choice or a choice that results in a negative outcome I .

  1. Need others to help me identify what went wrong.
  2. Recognize what went wrong but don’t know how to fix it or move on.
  3. Identify what went wrong and can create a plan to fix it or learn from the mistakes and move on.

When I am old no I . . .

  1. Get upset and say things that are mean or angry.
  2. Try to argue or cry to get my way.
  3. Say “Thank you” or “OK”

When I am told I am wrong or need to change something I . . .

  1. Rip up or crumple my paper and throw it away.
  2. Try to listen and make the changes.
  3. Listen and make the changes.

When I am given, told, or shown a different way of doing something I . . .

  1. Ignore the person and continue to do it the way I want.
  2. Try to listen and try to do things a new way.
  3. Listen to the advice and attempt to make the changes.

When I have something to say I . . .

  1. Blurt out whatever I am thinking
  2. Try to filter what I way
  3. Think before I speak

When I need to leave an activity I . . .

  1. Just walk away
  2. Throw a fit and cry to get everyone’s attention
  3. Let my teacher know I need some time away from the activity

When I have to wait for something I . . .

  1. Get upset and say things that are mean or angry
  2. Try to wait but sometimes get frustrated
  3. Do something I enjoy or continue working while I wait.