Hostel Week 7
Topic: Stand Up and Be Counted
So the main idea of the evening is that when young men stand up and are counted they can and do change the world. If the young guys that we have the privilege to minister to are able to grasp hold of this imagine what impact this would have not only in the school but in the community and the country.
General Program Outline:
Welcome: Mark (6:45)
Ice Breaker: Jordz (18:50 – 19:00)
Game: Sooj (19:00 – 19:20)
Group Time: Debbie (19:20 – 19:40)
Wrap up: Cheru (19:40-19:50)
Prayer: Mat (19:50-19:55)
Game (If time allows)
Welcome (Mark)
Hi all, we hope that you have had a great week... let’s open in prayer.
Ice Breaker (Jordz)
Everyone will have funny money and the object of the game is to try and win as much as possible, the way that they will do this is to challenge other in three different activities:
Thumb War
Rock, paper, scissors
Flipping a coin.
There are 3 Rules: (1) You must accept any challenge. (2) Sudden death, no 2 out of 3. (3) Challenge must have a coin and the challenger always takes heads.
Game: 4 Square Dodge Ball (Sooj)
Use masking tape to divide the hall into 4 large squares\rectangles. Then the group is divided into 4 equal groups. Sooj will start the game with the rest of us standing around to tell people if they got hit or are out. The twist to the game is that when you are “out” instead of sitting the game out you join the team that got you out. The game finishes or resets if everyone ends up in the same block. There are 2 ways to get out: (1) Get hit with a ball. (2) Catch a ball that someone threw at you, then the thrower must change teams.
Small Group Time (Debbie)
We will divide the guys into smaller groups, and then hands out the 4 stories.
1. David and Goliath
Maybe one of the best known stories in the Bible is the story of David and Goliath. When this story took place in 1 Samuel 17 David was probably only 17 years old. In this chapter we see David as an obedient son (1 Samuel 17:17-20), a brave soldier (verses 26 and 32), and, above all, a young man who fully trusted God (verses 37, 45-47).
David was told by his father to take provisions to his brothers who were fighting in the Israelite army against the Philistines. When David arrived he heard the champion of the Philistines, the giant Goliath, blaspheming the name of the God of Israel. David could not stand that someone would speak evil of the Lord. He was surprised that the army of Israel was not doing something about the wicked threats against God.
David presented himself before King Saul as someone who would go to fight Goliath one on one. David could not use the king’s armor that was offered to him because it was something he was not accustomed to using. Since David had battled lions and bears using his bare hands and a sling, he figured he would do the same with Goliath.
David chose 5 smooth stones from the riverbed and rushed to fight Goliath. With a single stone he was able to knock the giant to the ground. Then David took Goliath’s own sword and killed him by cutting off his head.
(1 Samuel 17:48–51)
David was a young man who trusted God to do great things. Therefore, David is known as a young man who did great things for God.
2. Joseph and Potiphar’s Wife
Joseph had been sold by his brothers into slavery in Genesis 37. By the end of the chapter Joseph was serving in the house of Potiphar, a government official and military commander (Genesis 37:36). Joseph served in the house of Potiphar and apparently had been greatly trusted by his master. Joseph said that he had been given stewardship over everything in the house except Potiphar’s wife (Genesis 39:9).
When Potiphar’s wife flirted with Joseph, he wisely rebuffed her advances. Though he did what was right and wise, he was falsely accused of acting inappropriately with her. The result was that he was thrown in prison (Genesis 39:11-20).
“And Joseph’s master took him, and put him into the prison, a place where the king’s prisoners were bound: and he was there in the prison. But the Lord was with Joseph, and shewed him mercy, and gave him favour in the sight of the keeper of the prison. And the keeper of the prison committed to Joseph’s hand all the prisoners that were in the prison; and whatsoever they did there, he was the doer of it. The keeper of the prison looked not to any thing that was under his hand; because the Lord was with him, and that which he did, the Lord made it to prosper.” (Genesis 39:20–23)
The story of Joseph is a good example that just because we do what is right, it does not mean that immediately we will be praised for it. However, in the end he was honored by God and justified in the sight of men for taking a stand to do right even when it was not easy nor pleasurable.
3. Daniel and His Friends
Another beloved story in the Bible is in the book of Daniel. Many people would know the story of Shadrach, Meshach and Abed-nego when they were put in the fiery furnace. Even more would remember the story of Daniel in the lion’s den. Did you know Daniel was somewhere around 80 years old when that took place?
We don’t know precisely when Nebuchadnezzar build the statue that he wanted the people to worship. But, it was sometime between the 3rd and 23rd year of the Babylonian captivity. It is believed that Shadrach, Meshach and Abed-nego were cast into the fiery furnace when they were between 10 and 30 years old. They certainly were many years younger than Daniel was when he faced the lions.
However, there is another interesting story about these four young men in Daniel chapter 1. They may have only been about 8 years old when they stood up for what they believed. They were offered food and drink that were against their traditional Jewish beliefs. They had already gained favor with their captors and requested that their diet be changed to something more familiar. They stood up for their beliefs even as very young men.
The result of their decision to honor the Lord with their eating habits was that God gave them knowledge and skill in learning and wisdom (Daniel 1:17). This verse also says that Daniel was given an ability to understand dreams and visions which is basically what the rest of the book is about.
4. Young Lad with His Lunch
In the New Testament there is a story of a young boy who responded to a call to do something for the Savior. Christ was surrounded by a multitude of 5000 men (with no mention of how many women and children there might have been) in John 6. Jesus looked to His disciples for a solution to the problem that the multitude was hungry and that it was late in the day. Of course, Christ already knew what He was planning to do (John 6:6).
Jesus asked Philip where they would get enough bread to feed the crowd. Philip didn’t know, but doubted that it could be done with the limited resourced they had. Andrew sought for a solution. He found a young man with a meal of 5 loaves of barley bread and two small fish.
The boy could have refused to give up his lunch. He could have chosen to run away when the disciple approached him and asked if he would sacrifice his meal for Jesus. Neither Andrew nor the boy knew what Christ would do, but this boy allowed the Lord to use his little gift. He trusted Christ with his possessions even though he did not know what the outcome would be.
Jesus took the food and gave thanks to God for it. He distributed the food to the disciples who took each piece they were given and started handing it out to the people around them. Surprisingly there was plenty of food to go around. When everyone had finished eating, the disciples gathered up the food fragments and brought them back to Jesus. In the end they gathered 12 baskets full of food.
“And Jesus said, Make the men sit down. Now there was much grass in the place. So the men sat down, in number about five thousand. And Jesus took the loaves; and when he had given thanks, he distributed to the disciples, and the disciples to them that were set down; and likewise of the fishes as much as they would. When they were filled, he said unto his disciples, Gather up the fragments that remain, that nothing be lost. Therefore they gathered them together, and filled twelve baskets with the fragments of the five barley loaves, which remained over and above unto them that had eaten.” (John 6:10–13)
Like this little boy, we should be willing to hand over to the Lord anything that He requests from us. We may not know what He will do with it, but if we trust Him with our possessions and our lives, then He will do something wonderful like He did with this little lunch.
Group Questions
What stands out for you in this story?
How do you think the young man felt in each story?
What was the outcome of them standing up and being counted?
Do you think they were scared as young men to stand up and be counted?
What do you think helped them stand up and be counted?
How do you think you can stand up and be counted?
Wrap Up (Cheru)
Bring the guys to the front again and ask a few of them to share what came out of the group time, maybe something really resonated with them or God Spoke to them. Give that place to allow them to share in a safe environment.
Then wrap up along the line that we look at the world and everything around us and it is easy to fall into that trap and say poor little old me, I cant do anything, but when young men stand up and are counted they can and will change the world.
Closing Prayer (Mat)
Close the evening off in prayer.
If there is time we can play a game, such as shuffle bum or 4 square dodgeball