How to promote yourself with ease and confidence

As a Lead Recruiter for Expedia brand in Europeandinterview coach, I’ve noticed that a lot of clients and candidates find talking about themselves rather difficult.

A lot of people (and you might be one of them if you’re reading this) think they just should be recognized for their effort and rewarded accordingly, without any need for self-promotion.

Unfortunately; in today’s competitive workplace, if you assume that hard work alone is enough to get ahead, it is very likely you will be left behind by those who haven’t shied away from self-promotion.

Research shows that people who are comfortable with promoting themselves are not only more successful in landing a job from an interview, but go on to build stronger networks – within their organization and outside of it – and are more successful in business and throughout their careers.

Talking about what you’ve achieved and what you can do for others can be a difficult challenge for many – both job seekers and business owners.

How can you talk about yourself in interviews or in networking meetings without sounding like you’re bragging?

And the answer is simple.

You need to change your perspective.

Authentic self-promotion is about giving and sharing.

You are not bragging – you are giving and sharing your gifts to the world. You are sharing ideas that can change a person’s life.

Self-promotion is about strategically building your ‘personal brand’ to ensure that those who can help you accomplish more in your career will know not just who you are, but the value you have to offer and how you’d like to add more of it.

The truth is, people are not going to know how talented and accomplished you are unless you tell them!

If those who can help you accomplish more in your career do not know who you are and the value you have to provide,it doesn’t serve anyone.

Let me give you some tips for promoting yourself with confidence and ease:

  1. Understand your audience

Be mindful of who your audience is and whether or not what you have to share is relevant to them. Be strategic in what you share, with whom and how you communicate your experience.

Therefore, you need to decide what specific accomplishments or stories are most relevant to share. Let’s assume you are aiming for a leadership role. The results you’ve achieved in an individual contributor’s role – no matter how impressive - might be less relevant than examples where you have set strategy or opened a new market.

  1. Promote your value – not yourself

Here’s the deal - you won’t get noticed, let alone hired, if you don’t talk about your achievements – no matter how uncomfortable it is. Therefore, talk about specific projects you’ve worked on and the value you’ve delivered to an organization. Remember to quantify your results!It is really important you talk about key success metrics of your projects and how you’ve delivered against them.

You won’t stand out amongst others if you don’t quantify your results with percentages or numbers. You can talk about how you’ve saved costs, made or saved the company money or saved time.

  1. Demonstrate confidence and passion!

Confidence is so important – whether in interviews or business meetings. When you transition into a new role or a company, you need to show the hiring manager that you have confidence in yourself and know that you’ll be successful in the job.

If you are a business owner, if you don’t feel confident about your products or services, how can you expect your clients to trust them?

Sharing examples of things you’ve done that convey your accomplishments and capabilities is very powerful. If you are a business owner, share stories of how your services or products have helped to solve specific problems.

  1. Get recommendations

Third party recommendations can help you get a job or to grow your business. If you don’t have them already, ask your previous colleagues or bosses to write a recommendation for you on LinkedIn. For business owners, ensure you have testimonials on your website sharing specific results your clients achieved as a result of working with you.

The more people you can get to campaign on your behalf, the stronger your brand will be.

  1. Reframe disapproval

Let’s be honest, there will always be some people who won’t like you or what you do. In fact, the more successful you become, the more criticism you are likely to attract.

So what? Their criticism is rarely about you – they might simply feel fearful or insecure about themselves.

Letting the fear of being criticized determine what you do is a sure-fire method of never achieving what you want in work or in life.

You have value to add and a potential to fulfill – therefore it is your duty to ensure that those who can help you in your career or business know how talented and invaluable you are!

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Margaret Bujis anInterview and Career Acceleration Coachwho specializes in helping professionals get any job they want at their best ever salary.

If you want to find out how recruiters read resumes, why you are not getting hired, how to sell yourself successfully in a job interview, and how to negotiate your best salary yet, you can download herFREE “You’re HIRED!” video course.