FROM BAT CHAWAH TO BAT YHWH THROUGH THE KAHALA OF YAHUSHUA
By Mariamne Koniuchowsky
IMAGE, LIKENESS, COPIES:
Humans are imitations / imitators. From the beginning this Emet was established: We were created in the IMAGE & LIKENESS of s/o else: YHWH, not ourselves. We have nothing original about us!
BERE 1:27So the Word of Elohim created man in His own image, in the image of Elohim He created him; male and female He created them.
OUR CALLING: WHAT HAS BEEN THE MISSION OF THE WOMAN/DAUGHTER OF YHWH’S MALKUT?
Look back at the INTENSE INFLUENCE that the 1st woman had on her spouse: When she failed, he decided to fail/fall with her b/c the reality of our circumstance is that humans do not really want to be ALONE! We are social interactive creatures: IOW WE NEED EACH OTHER, yet all of us have a function to fulfill & a position to occupy. We have so much freedom in YHWH regarding what details can color our lives, but in our gender roles, we have specific missions to accomplish.
From the beginning, the Daughters of YHWH were CALLED TO BUILD alongside with their Yisraelite brothers: BERE 2:18 And YHWHElohim said, It is not tov that the man should be alone; I will make for him a helper as his counterpart.
OUR TEMPORARY LOSS OF FOCUS:
The woman that lacks a balanced, healthy view of herself and her brothers, is the woman that will miss out on all that YHWH ORIGINALLY ordained for her life and success! This has a ripple effect: when 1 begins to devalue, those near them begin to IMITATE the same thinking to the point that the society that chooses to belittle and degrade its females, is the society that is in danger of extinction. Elevate homosexuality diminishing the roles of males and females, thus forcing gay and lesbian relationships. Forced to be man-like since men have failed in their roles: NO MOMS, NO WIVES, NO PROTECTORS!
ROMANS 1:26 -32
For this cause YHWH gave them up to vile affections: for even their women did change the natural sexual relations into that which is against nature: 27 And likewise also the men, leaving the natural sexualrelationship with the woman, burned in their lust one toward another; men with men committing shameful acts, and receiving back in their own selves repayment for their error. 28 And even as they did not like to retain YHWHin their da’at, YHWHreleased them to a wasted mind, to do those things that are improper;29 Being filled with all unrighteousness, fornication, wickedness, covetousness, maliciousness; full of envy, murder, fighting, deceit, evil thinking; whisperers, 30 Backbiters, haters of YHWH, despiteful, proud, boasters, inventors of evil things, disobedient to parents, 31 Without binah, or discernment, brit breakers, cold and without ahava, unforgiving, ruthless: 32 Who knowing the mishpat of YHWH, that those who commit such things are worthy of death, not only do the same, but also take pleasure in others that do them.
A CHANCE FOR RESTORATION:
Root 4:11 And all the people that were in the gate, and the zechanim, said, We are witnesses. YHWH make the woman that has come into your bayit like Rachel and like Leah, which two did build Beit Yisrael; and prove your worth in Ephratah, and proclaim the Name in Beth-Lechem:
Mishle 14:1Every wise woman builds her bayit: but the foolish breaks it down with her hands.
This occurs SUCCESSFULLY when we SEEK the MAIN CONSTRUCTION WORKER OF THE HOME: Yahushua Ben Banah/Son of The Builder!
RECOGNIZE YOUR IDENTITY: You were created in the Image & Likeness of YHWH; therefore, you are important to YHWH’s overall plans of Creation! He created you in the manner of your uniqueness for a reason. Your main function is to PRAISE, EXALT, ESTEEM, REVERE, RESPECT YHWH no matter what goes on in life! In all you do, esteem YHWH!
LEARN TO DISCERN THE BODY OF MASHIACH AND YOUR POSITION IN IT/UNDERSTAND THE ANATOMY OF YAHUSHO’S BODY:
I Qor 11:29For he that eats and drinks unworthily, eats and drinks damnation to himself, not discerning the body of the Master YHWH.
Matt 15:24 But He answered and said, They did not send Me but to the lost sheep of Beit Yisrael who went astray.
Redeemed Yisrael are those who ACCEPT Him as their Adon/Master and Redeemer. These:
Include Christians (Do not reject/despise them, they are part of the white fields that are ready to be harvested!)
Do NOT include Jews who have NOT received/believed on Yahusho (Do not seek to be joined to them, but instead seek to have them be joined to His Body and YOU!)
Do UNDERSTAND & SEEK the 5-Fold Ministry of Ephsi 4:11,12:
- Shlichim
- Nebiim
- Proclaimers
- Roehim
- Morim
Do FAMILIARIZE yourself with the FAMILIES within Yahusho’s Body:
- 12 Tribes of Yisrael
- Singles
- Mono-Gynous
- Poly-Gynous
- Families composed of ADOPTED members
- Yahusho’s into the ADOPTION BIZ!
1.)WHO ARE YOU? YOU ARE A MEMBER OF HIS BODY: KNOW YOUR POSITION IN THAT CORPORATION!
Creation of YHWH- Less than malachim, less than Elohim (YHWH), and Elohim (Teh 82), Subservient under the Headship of YHWH-Yahushua and Man (A Abba/Patriarcal Order)
Redeemed
No longer condemned to die in your sins
Yisraelite
A Citizen of the New Yahrushalayim!
Female
A Bat YHWH
WHO ARE YOUR ABBA& YOUR IMA? PHYSICAL AND SPIRITUAL. If you don’t have guides, mentors, ask YHWH to place you in a tob, Ruach-Filled home of Believers.
RESPECT THEM! SHEM 20:12 [Hey] Esteem/Revere/Respect/Obey your abba and your ima: that your yamim may be long upon the land that YHWH your Elohim gives you.
IMITATE THEM?
Ex. If the Ruach YHWH is your Ima, are you measuring up to Her Excellence?
We know from I Qor 13:4-8 thatAhava
- suffers long
- is kind;
- ahava envies not;
- ahava does not boast,
- is not puffed up
- Does not behave itself indecently
- Does not seek its own (advantage)
- is not easily provoked
- is not easily offended
- thinks no evil
- stores up no grievances
- Has no gilah in Torah-less-ness, but
- has simcha in the Emet/Yahusho
- Bears all things
- believes all things
- has tikvah for all tov things
- endures all things
- Ahava never fails
- Ahava never comes to an end
So, if YHWH = LOVE, we can check ourselves to see how we are measuring up to the IMAGE and LIKENESS of our FAMILY YHWH (Abba, Son, and Ruach/Ima) simply by substituting OUR NAMES for the WORD “LOVE”!
LEARN HIS (YOUR)-STORY: THE TANAK & B. C. (Torah-Nebiim/Ketubim) & (Most recent HIS-STORY)—ImaChawah didn’t, so she got in trouble!
Read it (Become Familiar with it)
Believe it
Accept/Adopt it, OWN IT: YOU ARE YISRAEL!!!!! It is YOURS—IT IS YOU!!!
Learn It (Record it in your heart). [Ex. TzephanYahMaaseh 7]
Imagine yourself in the TIME LINE! (SHEM 12: 24 And you shall observe this word as a mishpat for you,
and for your sons le-olam-va-ed. )
Learn, Practice, prepare yourself in history, attitude, mind-set (you are one of them; you are Yisrael (American)
Transforming of your mind constantly. Rom 12:2 And be not conformed to this olam hazeh: but be transformed by the ongoing renewing of your mind, that you may discern what is that tov, acceptable, and even the perfect, will of YHWH.
WHO ARE YOUR BRETHREN- Who belongs to Yahusho? To learn to RESPECT your brethren/co-members/co-laborers:
Yahusho’s Body is made up of families/tribes, comprehend the different systems of families in His Body. Know the type to which you belong: Single, Mono-gynist, Poly-Gynist.
BE THANKFUL FOR YOUR MULTIPLE LEVELS OF INSULATION/PROTECTION/LOVE AS A FEMALE IN YISRAEL/THE ABBA’S ORDER:
YHWH (The Abba)
Yahushua (The Ben, Your Redeemer)
Ruach YHWH (Your Ima)
Your Earthly Horim- Moms & Dads
Your Earthly Brethren- Brothers and Sisters, A Friendly, yet sincere support system
Your Earthly Husband
Your Community/Tribal Elders (Abbot, Imot, and Elders/Zechanim who should see you as one of their daughters/sister)
Your Sons and Daughters
UNDERSTAND COVENANT
REMAIN STEADFAST WHERE YOU ARE PLANTED
ATTACKS FROM AN ENEMY DON’T OFTEN COME WITH A WARNING: LEARN TO ARM/DEFEND YOURSELF AS A BAT YHWH
Learn when to let it go
Get better at picking your battles
Put on the Armor (Spiritually & Physically)- I QOR 11: 10 For this cause ought the woman to have a symbol of authority on her head because of the unclean fallen shadim.
Head Covering- Physical, Spiritual, and Individual
Learn to TAKE COVER & OFFEND YOUR ENEMY
MODESTY: You already know it’s expected of you to dress modestly, but many of you do not understand why.
- Protection & Insulation- Who will be easier to rape, assault?
- It commands respect, reverence
- It commands fear
- It’s comfortable, less worries
- Above all it REVERES YHWH, Shows Him you respect & Fear Him. He commands us to dress modestly.
NOT ONLY IN DRESS, BUT IN…
IN SPEECH
IN ACTION
Know your points of refuge:
- The Word of YHWH
- Your Prayer Closet
- Your Husband
- Parents
- Elders
- Brethren / Believing Family
- Community
Learn to WIELD/USE the S/Word
Obedience- Yaakob 4:7 7 Submit yourselves therefore to YHWH. Resist s.a.tan, and he will flee from you.
Be Light/Let your LIGHT SHINE!! What is LIGHT: Clarity, Simplicity, Transparency, Brightness, Extroversion, Don’t Hide/ Withdraw/ Withhold Tob
Luka 128 Also I say to you, Whoever shall confess Me before men, Him shall the Ben Ahdahm also confess before the heavenly malachim of YHWH: 9 But he that denies Me before men shall be denied before the heavenly malachim of YHWH.
Yahuchanan 1:5 And the Light shines in darkness; and the darkness did not overcome it.
Don’t wander far away from your shields of defense/coverings
Have reactive /quick responses to the attack of the enemy (esp. mentally as that’s where 80% of attacks come through)
The Word of YHWH- Commit some quick reminders/verses to heart
Have prayer partners you can readily go to
Have quick responses for your weak points
Ex If you have a tendency to get depressed
Recognize the patterns of depression for you
Know WHO is really behind that oppression and attack
Have WORDS of RESCUE to pull you out of your those ruts YHWH is my shir and my joy
When an attack/fight is about to break out (eg. between you and your husband) RUN TO YOUR TRUTHS:
- I love him
- He is my gift from YHWH
- Yahushua lives in him
- He is a vessel of the Ruach YHWH
- He is a son of YHWH
- He loves me
- He cares for me
- He has done me so much tob and blessing
- He, like me, is a vessel in formation toward perfection…. We are not FULLY there yet!
LEARN TO DISCERN/DIFFERNTIATE/TELL BETWEEN TOB FRUIT AND RA FRUIT: CHOOSE TOB/LIFE! Deb 30:19 I call the shamayim and earth to record this yom against you, that I have set before you chayim and death, blessing and cursing: therefore choose chayim, that both you and your zera may live:
LEARN TO IDENTIFY YOUR FRIENDS: BY THEIR FRUIT- All Yah-Centered/Focused individuals!
UNDERSTAND WHO YOUR ENEMIES ARE: THERE ARE 2 MAIN CATEGORIES:
YOU- WhenYOU are not YHWH/Yahushua-Centered/not a friend of YHWH!
- Not hearing/obeying His Voice; therefore in disobedience to Him
- CHECK YOUR OWN FRUIT: Gal 5:22-23: AHABAH MANIFESTED THROUGH:
- Simchah
- Shalom
- Patience
- Chesed
- Rachamim
- Trust Worthiness
- Gentleness
- Self-Control
FRUIT OF THE RUACH: IF WE LIVE IN THE RHK, LET US ALSO HAVE OUR HALACHA IN THE RHK! Gal 5:25
s.a.tan- The Liar, Accuser, Murderer, Destroyer, Thief, Confuser, Rebel,
1.)Corrupt friends (Ppl who do not have YHWH as the CENTER of their lives are not trust-worthy… sooner/later they will CHOOSE) eg. Megan Korrek
2.)Corrupt influences that are not Yah-Focused (ie. Drugs, movies, foods, behavior, language, attitudes, etc..etc…)
The lex of the ROTTEN OKRA: I tried to RESCUE/RECEIVE/ACCEPT/APPROVE/INGEST/BEFRIEND/MAKE KOSHER something that so obviously was not and I suffered deep, hard consequences for ignoring this IMPORTANT & COMMON SENSE TRIUTH! If there is NO LIFE (Yahushua) in it, you’re eventually gonna meet up with its death.
ASSESS/RECOGNIZE AND TAKE INVENTORY OF…
REVIEW YOUR TESTIMONY: WHY ARE YOU HERE? (AKA HIS STRENGTH)Your his/her story. Make it tob. Write it ALL OUT / DISCLOSURE.
YOUR WEAKNESSES AND WORK THROUGH THEM:
Do you get angry easily? Eph 4:26 “Be angry, but sin not: let not the sun go down upon your wrath.”
Do you tend to feel jealousy towards others? Teh139:14 “I will hallel You; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvelous are Your works; and that does my being know full well.”
Do you have difficulties in listening to others? “Shema Yisrael”
Do you tend to be critical or naggy? Mish 21:19 “It is better to dwell in the wilderness, than with a contentious and angry woman.”
Do you bully people even w/o knowing it? Are you rough in the manner you speak to others?
Do you have a tendency to lie/misrepresent?
Do you jump to erroneous conclusions & false judgements?
Are you a mocker?
Do you covet others’ possessions?
Do you frequently lose focus on YHWH?
Are you easily frightened?
YOUR GIFTS/TALENTS, STRENGTHS- USE AND SHARE THEM- To Hallel YHWH in ALL you do!
Dance, Cook, Clean, Organize, Patient, Caring, Hospitable, Singer, Teacher,
DO FREQUENT SELF-ASSESSMENTS / CHECK YOURSELFTAKE CORRECTIVE MEASURES: (SELF-DEFENCE & OFFENCE MAINTENANCE)
COMPREHEND AND THRIVE IN YOUR ASSIGNED ROLES: You are important and vital to those around you who depend on you to succeed in their own lives!
Mom, wife, daughter, aunt, sister, assistant, Rebbetzin, cousin, niece, etc…
SEEK YHWH/YAHUSHUA-LIFE
ASK FOR THE RUACH OF YHWH AND SHE WILL BE DISPENSED TO YOU TO LEAD GUIDE, AND COUNSEL YOU
Matt 25:3They that were foolish took their lamps, and took no oil with them:
DEVELOP YOUR PERSONAL RELATIONSHIP WITH YOUR ABBA, YOUR IMA, AND YOU’RE YOUR REDEEMER: COMMUNICATION—STAY IN THE LOOP!
Submit to constant prayer: DO NOT FORGET that the most profitable is the one coming from above and if possible, 0 or little from below as it delays the process.
DO UNTO OTHERS AS YOU WOULD HAVE THEM DO UNTO YOU
You want to be treated like a lady, be a lady!
You want your husband to treat you like a queen, make him your earthly king.
You like the old ways of chivalric/gentle-manly gestures, be a gentle, chivalric-lady! Just because you’re a female, does not mean you CAN’T!!
Open doors for others;let others go in before you: Phil 2:3 Let nothing be done through strife, or pride, or conceit; but in lowliness of mind let each esteem the other better than themselves
Also, don’t be afraid to ALLOW others to be considerate and gentle-mannered toward you when they offer it up.
The KEY to all this: HUMILITY! Yes, even women have to learn it!
BE SMART: LEARN THE EASY WAY: WATCH/OBSERVE/HEAR, LISTEN AND OBEY: CHOOSE LIFE!
KNOW YOUR CALLING: WHAT IS YHWH ASKING YOU TO DO?
LEARN TO HEAR YHWH’S VOICE: FRUIT OF THE RUACH: IF WE LIVE IN THE RHK, LET US ALSO HAVE OUR HALACHA IN THE RHK! Gal 5:25
Chawah’s #1 problem: she did not have the Ruach of YHWH in her to guide her. She didn’t covenant with the Ruach to allow her to guide and lead her, through her husband, Ahdahm.
ALIGN THE YEARNING OF YOUR HEART/YOUR DREAMS & GOALS to those of your Abba and King. Imitation/mimic! Find the Way that everything you do from this point fwd, you do it for the Hallel of YHWH!!!!
LEARN YOUR VALUE AND COMPROMISE IT FOR NO-BODY BUT YAHUSHO’S
KNOW YOU ARE REALTY AND MUST RETAIN YOUR ESTEEM: PRINCESSES AND QUEENS; MINISTERS UNTO YHWH AND YOUR FAMILIES!
IMMERSE YOURSELF WITH-IN A SYSTEM OF ACCOUNTABILITY (Going back to a BELIEVING FAMILY/HOME).
CONCLUSION:
Rev 19:7 7 Let us be glad and gilah and give esteem to Him: for the marriage of the Lamb has come, and His wife has made herself ready.
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