KINDNESS

1.Review (of past class or past Soul Shoppe class. Always tie in the previous class to this class)

  1. Be an Ally – stand up for you/friends; speak up; be a friend.
  2. Golden rule – do not do to others what you do not want done to you
  3. Empathy – understanding what it is like in the other person’s shoes. Identification with and understanding of another's situation, feelings, and motives
  1. Topic Today: Kindness

Source: Apollo Beach Elementary School

Lesson object: see below

Lesson Objectives

  • Students will be able to generate ideas from multiple sources (e.g. brainstorming, graphic organizer, group discussion).
  • Students will be able to use knowledge of antonyms and synonyms to determine meanings of words.
  • Students will be able to understand the distinguishing features among the common forms of literature (e.g. poetry)
  • Students will be able to respond to discuss, and reflect on various literary selections (e.g. poetry) connecting text to self; text to world, text to text.
  • Students will be able to write a variety of expressive forms (e.g. poetry).
  • Students will practice cooperative learning strategies while writing class poems with partners.
  • Students will practice democratic process of voting for poem that will represent their class view of "Kindness."
  1. What is kindness – acts of being friendly, considerate and generous to others.
  2. Word meanings:
  3. friendly – showing kindly interest and goodwill;
  4. considerate- thinking about the rights and feelings of other people : showing kindness toward other people
  5. Generous – showing kindness and concern for others; freely giving or sharing money and other valuable things
  1. Graphic Organizer

Synonyms, antonyms and examples/connections (text/self/world)

Synonyms:noun compassion (a feeling of wanting to help someone who is sick, hungry, in trouble, etc.), generosity

affection
altruism
benevolence
cordiality
courtesy
decency
forbearance
gentleness
delicacy
heart
helpfulness / good will
goodness
grace graciousness
hospitality
humanity
patience
solicitude
sweetness
sympathy / tenderness
tolerance
understanding
unselfishness
amiability
solicitousness
tact
thoughtfulness
fellow feeling
good intention / beneficence
charity
clemency
consideration
indulgence
kindliness
magnanimity
mildness
philanthropy
serviceability
Antonyms for kindness
animosity
hatred
hostility / intolerance
meanness
mercilessness / selfishness
thoughtlessness
barbarousness
cruelty / ill will
indecency
indifference
harshness

Connections: Examples

  • Compliment, help, if hurt, alright, not laughing if fall, trip, forgive mistakes
  • Text to text: book example.
  • Text to self: help someone
  • Text to world – tsunami/donate

Text to self; personal experience of giving/getting kindness

4. Why be Kind:

  • Feels good
  • Happy
  • Empathy
  • Feel respected
  • Ripple effect inspires others
  1. Acrostic Poem – what is it? Poem that uses the first letter of the word we are describing. Examples. Sun and show 2 kindness
  1. Buddy to your right; cards. Right side do KIND and left do NESS – 10 mins.
  1. Write down everyone’s answers and class votes on what our Kindness Acrostic Poem will be. Char Ed will come back tomorrow the class poster.
  1. Acrostic Poem about a classmate. We’ll collect, review and read/post.
  1. Show sample acrostic poem.

Prep time:

  1. Create index cards with kid’s name in each card
  2. Use white board or paper flip chart to create the graphic organizer
  3. Use white board or paper flip chart to create the class acrostic poem

K / indness is the topic today
I / t is important to learn in so many ways
N / ice kids treat others with respect
D / aily reminders about acts of kindness keep us in check
N / 0t one day should pass without doing one act of kindness to another
E / Especially to your mom, dad, sister or brother
S / Ay something nice to someone will make his or her day
S / ee how happy you’ll be when you find that your act of kindness went a very long way.

K is for Keep yourself under control
I is for Including everyone
N is for Never being mean
D is for Doing the right thing
N is for Being nice
E is for Everyone being friendly
S is for Sharing
S is for Say please and thank you

Some sources

Why Be Kind?

Kindness is encouraged by every major religion, by leaders as diverse as the Dalai Lama to Richard Carlson, the popular author of the Don't Sweat the Small Stuff series. These books are really about kindness. I did an analysis of the 100 strategies listed in the first book of the Don't Sweat series. 85 of the 100 strategies listed related either to ways to be kind to yourself or others. The title of the series is even the result of a kind act!

Kindness leads to many of the virtues to which we value and desire. The Talmud says "Deeds of kindness are equal in weight to all the commandments." The Dalai Lama says that kindness is his religion. Thaddeus Golas, the author of A Lazy Man's Guide to Enlightenment, comes closest to why I believe that kindness is important: "All your words and actions define the world you want to live in." When we focus on kindness, our world becomes kinder; we become kinder. Kindness can lead us wherever we want to go: to a happier life, to being more Christ-like, to enlightenment, to making a difference in this world, to raising loving and kind children.

The reasons for being kind are innumerable. Here are just a few:

1.Being kind feels good. Doing something for someone else really does make us feel good. Just as running releases endorphins, so does kindness. Make someone smile and you'll feel better for having done so.

2.God smiles on kindness. Whether we are Christian, Jewish, Muslim or Buddhist, kindness is an important part of the exhortations of all these religions. Both Buddha and Christ were kind and encouraged their followers to be likewise.

3.Kindness broadens our perspective.In order to be kind, we have to pay attention to what is happening around us. As we notice more things and help others, we get a glimpse of other ways of looking at things. A broader perspective helps us to keep things in context.

4.Kindness softens our heart. When we look for kind deeds, beauty, and the opportunity for kindness, we'll find that we are more compassionate and more tolerant. As we practice empathy, it opens our heart to others.

5.Kindness brightens our world. When we are kind to people, it makes them happy. The more people who experience kindness from us, the more happy people will be in our lives. When those around us are happier, our world becomes a brighter, lighter place to live.

6.Kindness helps people feel respected and less alone. By recognizing someone's need for help and acting on it in a compassionate manner, it makes the recipient feel valued. It also makes the giver feel better about themselves and more connected.

7.Kindness makes people want to be around us. One of the most common responses to kindness is gratitude. People appreciate what we've done for them. Our kindness is very attractive, so they want to be around us and actually seek us out. The Buddha lists this as one of the eleven impacts of lovingkindness, but he put it even more strongly, saying: "Lovingkindness will make people love you."

8.Kindness bears wonderful fruit. Kindness begets kindness, openness, health and reduces the effects of stress on our bodies and our hearts. In many ways, kindness is like Liquid Plumber for the soul: it opens us up, clears out the dross, and dwells lightly in our hearts.

9.Kindness begets kindness. When you are kind to others, the impact of your action doesn't stop there. Many times the recipient of your kindness and others who see or hear about your kindness are inspired to be kinder. The ripples of kindness are truly endless.

10.Your kids will learn from your example.When you are kind to friends and acquaintances, your kids will be more likely to be kind as well. People often treat their children with kindness, but can be short with a crazy driver, strangers, or others outside the family. This can cause "us and them" thinking that devalues others as "less" than ourselves. Kindness breeds tolerance and understanding.

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