Adlerian Social Interest Scale-Romantic Relationship Form (ASIS-RR)

1 (strongly disagree) 2 (disagree) 3 (undecided) 4 (agree) 5 (strongly agree)

1.  My rights and obligations are equal to those of my partner.

2.  I can sacrifices to promote my partner’s growth.

3.  I like joining in group activities together with my partner.

4.  I like to work or play together with my partner to reach mutual benefits and goals.

5.  I want to give and take, in the hope of reaching mutually acceptable solutions to conflicts in my relationship.

6.  I recognize my partner with respect to his/her rights, knowledge and experience.

7.  I want to use my abilities, knowledge, or talents to aid my partner.

8.  I feel at ease and comfortable when interacting with my partner.

9.  I show physical affection to my partner.

10.  I feel that I am a member of a group together with my partner.

11.  My personal goals must be consistent with the welfare of my partner.

12.  I help and encourage my partner’s growth.

13.  I show deep interest in my partner’s full use of talents and potentials.

14.  I show verbal affection to my partner.

15.  In a romantic relationship, one of the partners must be dominant *

16.  I can abuse my partner to my expediency *

17.  It is acceptable for the partners to dominate each other *

18.  My partner must obey me *

19.  Men/women cannot be trusted *

20.  I am plainspoken in romantic relationships.

21.  The small mistakes of my partner are not important for me.

22.  Only love is necessary for happiness in romantic relationships *

23.  I prefer orgiastic sexuality rather than a personalized love *

24.  I prefer to enjoy the present time without considering the future of my relationships *

* Reverse scored

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