An Integrative Model of Conflict Resolution Systems and Strategies:

Weaving the Tapestry of Spiral Dynamics into Negotiation

(A Draft for your Consideration, revised Jan 2008)

by Harry Webne-Behrman,

University of Wisconsin-Madison

Introduction: The Need for a New Conceptualization

Traditional models of conflict resolution tend to focus on the assessment of needs and interests between parties in a two-dimensional matrix, assigning general categories of behavior to describe the likely outcomes of bargaining behaviors. While such models have served to heighten awareness of the possibilities within such frameworks, they are severely limited by a number of factors:

1. They treat party interests as uni-dimensional (horizontally), an over-simplification that aids dis-aggregation of variables, but which limits our analytical understanding of the negotiation phenomena at work;

2. They view interests as singularly presented or revealed by the parties, rather than emerging in response to stimuli within the negotiation process that catalyze deeper levels of meaning to be revealed emergently;

3. They focus solely on behaviors, assuming a somewhat rationalistic approach that denies the complexities of the psychological (emotional) and procedural dimensions of the dispute to be negotiated, as well as the physical and cognitive responses to the conflict that evolve during the negotiation process;

4. They fail to account for the vMemes that differentiate the worldviews of parties, their capacity to embrace varying levels of complexity, or the communication strategies (i.e., language) required in order to either escalate polarization or resolve positions through an integrative set of standards that may be applied to the situation at hand.

There are likely additional factors, but to begin by understanding that these factors, in themselves are limitations of the traditional paradigm begets the need for a new way of thinking about conflict. We find that the language of integral th eory (rint.co.uk/Wilber.htm) from Ken Wilber and spiral dynamics (raldynamics.net/) from Don Beck offer ways to express this new conceptualization of conflict resolution in some exciting ways.

A New Model

I need to find a better way to represent these images on the computer… so I’ll just use this typology for now (it’s from Integral Naked, a fine website for this material, “Introduction to Integral Theory and Practice, 2003-2004). Truth represents the “I-Thou” dimension of conflict… interpersonal, me vs. you kind of stuff… the competition b/w our positions gets expressed in typical schemas as “competition” vs. “accommodation,” with an inherent tension along the distributive ‘win-lose’ axis that runs from the Y-axis to the X-axis. However, the integration of these interactions, represented diagonally through the center of this area emerging from the intersections of the XYZ axes, represents a collaborative conflict style and ‘win-win’ processes.

The Beauty dimension should be considered 3-dimensionally here, folding forward so that the interactions of Truth and Beauty provide a framework for seeking the ‘3rd win’ as Don Beck would term it: We engage now around the organizational/gaia level, in addition to the interpersonal level. So integration through the imagined ‘center’ of the spiral here represents a win-win-win’ process.

The Goodness dimension represents disintegration, the negative spin of conflictive energies, interacting at both the organizational and interpersonal levels. If you consider drawing the integrative line southwest through b/w the Y and Z axes, you will find ‘disintegration’ in its fullest sense: Chaos leading to mass violence and the breakdown of all social systems (e.g., Darfur).

Levels and stages of development can be useful for better understanding the conditions in which people operate and the needs/interests likely to be most expressive under such conditions. The following diagram, also from the Integral Naked article, helps clarify the range of levels:

Don Beck and his conceptualization of spiral dynamics then applied these diversified understandings of personal, interpersonal and societal needs to develop models of organizations, politics, etc. He has also applied this thinking to diverse conflictive situations in South Africa, the Netherlands, and the Middle East (you might want to check his Middle East initiative out at: anemergencemiddleeast.org/ ).

A more straight-forward and practical application of integral theory to conflict was demonstrated in the work of Darcy Riddell on the “Great Bear Rainforest” dispute in British Columbia. The approach led to a sustainable, integral framework for solutions to an entrenched conflict among First Nations people, loggers, paper companies, the Canadian Government, and other parties. You can read about the dispute at: /News/2005/09/11/GreatBear/ Be sure to scroll down the article and see Darcy Riddell’s brief discussion of the integral approach she used in this dispute.

What This Means in Practice

I am coming to realize that this model allows us to better understand the complexities of parties as they are presented in the contexts and environments of the conflicts in which they occur. These are different understandings than those arrived at through ‘high context-low context’ cultural distinctions (as offered by Stella Ting-Toomey, among others). Rather, the spiral AQAL model allows us to see how the vMEME holons of various contexts clarify the most succinctly expressed needs of the parties at that point in time. In so doing, the mediator or other intervener can more readily understand which sets of needs will be primary for the parties at that point, the language that best expresses those needs, and the solutions that may be more readily understood and embraced in responding to the needs of the conflict. This does not necessarily mean that the solutions will be sustained over a long period of time, but it does mean that if they are able to take hold at this time, a foundation of trust can be built and success can then begin to be sought as a ‘hope’ among the parties. In this sense, the “3rd Win” is that of the organization or society... the win is the opportunity (or audacity, to use Barak Obama’s term) of hope being allowed to emerge.

In systems that are degenerating, where hope has been lost, putting a ‘floor’ on the degenerating circumstances can be a powerful moment of insight and stabilization. I have worked in many organizations where hope has been lost and where energy has dissipated from the participants, long before I have gotten involved as a mediator. I have found that the parties are ‘over-ripe’ in their experience with impasse, so even proven strategies find strong resistance... not from self-righteousness, but from exhaustion. If we can use an integral model of conflict resolution to reframe our approaches as mediators to better understand the manner in which the parties are currently experiencing their interests, it may be a tool that opens up new possibilities to engage around conflicts that would otherwise continue to degenerate and destroy.

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-- Harry Webne-Behrman